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Please welcome president of the Heritage
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Foundation and Heritage Action, Dr.
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Kevin Roberts.
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[applause]
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Thank you. Welcome to the Heritage
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Foundation. It's always good to bring
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friends together here in Washington, and
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everything in Washington these days
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seems to be urgent, particularly when
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you go to Capitol. But I would argue
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there's nothing more urgent for American
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society than our topic today. That
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urgency is because all of American
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society, including the conservative
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movement, has been late to recognize the
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true threat technology poses to our
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children's development, body, mind, and
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soul. Digital dependency is making our
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children's bodies weaker, their
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imaginations wither, and their souls
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restless and corrupted.
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And digital dependency
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is not an accident. Big tech is actively
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working to colonize and commodify
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American childhood.
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Transhumanist technologists reject
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natural limits and they're all too happy
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to turn our kids into lab rats for their
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experiments.
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They want a generation glued to screens,
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easy to track, easy to sell, and easy to
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control. What they call innovation
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is really an attempt to replace parents,
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teachers, and faith with machines, data,
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and control. This can no longer be
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ignored nor excused. It is robbing our
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young people of the wonder, the virtue,
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and the discipline that make life
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meaningful. As parents, we're charged
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with raising virtuous citizens. As
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policymakers, we have a duty to help
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parents fulfill that charge. At William
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Catholic College, where I was honored to
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serve as president, we expressed that
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mission this way. Outdoor education
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renews wonder, the root of all learning.
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It strengthens the imagination and the
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senses, the indispensable supports of
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every mental endeavor. It cultivates
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virtue, the mind's compass, and the
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wellspring of happiness.
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Screen addiction does the opposite. It
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destroys wonder, dulls the imagination,
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numbs the senses, and undermines the
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virtues. It's why since its inception,
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Wyoming Catholic College has disallowed
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cell phones on its campus.
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The fruit of that is when you walk onto
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campus and students and faculty alike
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look you in the eye know how to have
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conversations with you are joyful and
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after the first semester when the
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students have to turn in the phones and
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and they lament that by the second
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semester or the the third semester
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really the fall of their second year
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they're anxiously wanting to give it to
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the college because they're ready to get
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rid of this thing after they've had it
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all summer.
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I know I'm preaching to the choir. Many
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of you in this room were among the first
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to warn of the threat that screens and
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new technologies present to our
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children. What others saw as a cultural
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shift, many of you rightly understood to
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be the beginning of a societal crisis.
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No one has sounded that alarm more
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powerfully than our very distinguished
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guest, Dr. Jonathan height. his
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remarkable book, truly remarkable, one
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of the most important in the modern era,
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the anxious generation, how the great
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rewiring of childhood is causing an
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epidemic of mental illness, has awakened
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America and the world to this danger. I
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also know that Dr. Hyde has written
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openly about how in the course of
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working on the righteous mind, he
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encountered conservative thinkers such
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as Edmund Burke, and that encounter led
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him to question some longtime
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assumptions. and in the end to cease
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identifying politically as a liberal.
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Dr. Height, I know we may not agree on
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every issue, but I want to tell you
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you're always welcome here at Heritage.
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We believe your work is making an
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invaluable contribution to the republic
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we all cherish. And I hope our
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collaboration on this issue will
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communicate to the whole country that
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protecting the most vulnerable in
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society, especially children, is a
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civilizational challenge, not a
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partisan. After Jonathan's remarks,
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he'll join Dr. J. Richards, my friend
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and colleague, the director of
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Heritage's Devas Center for Human
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Flourishing for a fireside chat and Q&A.
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I know that Jonathan Jay, all of you are
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fighting the good fight on behalf of
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future generations of Americans. So
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today, I'll close with just two things.
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First, thank you for your courage, for
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your leadership, your willingness to
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confront this challenge head on. And
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second, never give up. Our enemies are
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powerful, but it's not too late to save
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the rising generation from the harms of
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technology. At Heritage, we're standing
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shoulder-to-shoulder with you, working
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to make our families stronger, our
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children happier, and our nation
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healthier. God bless you and know that
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in the fight we are with you every day.
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Please join me in welcoming Dr. Jonathan
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Height. [applause]
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[applause]
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Thank you. Thank you so much. Um,
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I'm I'm here to talk to you about one of
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the last remaining bipartisan issues in
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our country because Democrats have
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children and Republicans have children
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and everybody sees this happening. And
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so I speak to groups everywhere on the
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left and the right wherever I can reach
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people who care about kids. But I'm I'm
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excited to speak here for for two
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reasons. The first is that conservatives
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come to this question sensitized to a
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range of social effects that a lot of
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other people don't seem to get. And I
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think Dr. Robert's introduction was one
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of the best introductions I've had
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because it laid out this isn't just
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about mental illness or test scores.
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This is about what do you say? Body,
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mind, and soul are being sucked out or
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being damaged. And this is about
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citizenship. And this is about the
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virtues of a democratic republic. So,
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I'm really excited for that reason to
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speak to this audience. The second
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reason is that you guys are in charge.
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Like, you know, that moment the
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Republicans and the conservative
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movement, you can actually make change.
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And I want to show you not just that we
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have to make change quickly, but that it
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it actually is happening and it can be
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done quickly for very little money for
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most of it. So, I'm going to present to
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you a gigantic problem that we can
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actually solve. So, let's go. Um, so a
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metaphor that I want to give you is
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about the way that trees grow. And here
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you see a tree that grew up behind a
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Civil War era uh tombstone. And because
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the tombstone was always there, the tree
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grew around it. Uh, and now I want to
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show you a photo of an actual Gen Z
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brain, which
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which I asked MidJourney to make for me.
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But the point is if if young people if
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if people born after 1995 that is Gen Z
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if their brains were developing and the
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phone was always there then the brain is
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going to grow around the phone and that
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I think is what's happened and I hope
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you guys can see me there. I'll just go
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like that to mean advance to the next
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slide. Okay. And then and I I'll have to
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do a lot so you have Okay. So the my
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book um is a tragedy in two acts. What?
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Okay. Uh, it's a tragedy in two acts.
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So, in there we go. In act one, uh, we
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lost the play-based childhood. We
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freaked out about child abduction. We
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stopped letting our kids out. All the
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older people here played outside after
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school and on weekends. Learn the skills
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of independence, learn the skills of
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self-governance. Preparation for
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democracy happens on the playground. You
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have to legislate, litigate, you have to
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do all those things to keep the game
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going. And in the 90s, we said too
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dangerous. Let's always have you
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supervised.
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Um, act two is the more dramatic one
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that I'll be focusing on, and that is
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the sudden arrival of the phone-based
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childhood. Uh, I'll walk you through
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exactly the timing, but younger people
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here in the audience, you saw you went
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through this. You saw all of this happen
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while you were teenagers or in in
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puberty.
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I can summarize the whole book by saying
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that we have overprotected our children
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in the real world. We've underprotected
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them online. We have to reduce both. We
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have to reverse both mistakes.
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So this is a summary of what I'll go
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through just very briefly. I'll start
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with the mental illness because that's
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where we have the best data. That's
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where this whole thing started. We first
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notice something is terribly terribly
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wrong. Uh so this graph shows the
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percentage um when when college students
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go into the mental health center or
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rather I should say what percentage of
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college students across the country have
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which problems. And you know all the
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graphs I'm going to show you there's no
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trend before 2010. Um and then this
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happens. the rates go way way up,
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especially for especially for girls, as
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you'll see on the next slide. It's
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[clears throat] not just that that young
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people say they're more depressed, it's
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that their behavior changes as well. So,
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the CDC tracks why people go into
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hospitals. And so, there's a category
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for non-fatal self-injury. And uh and
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the rates for 10 to 14 year old girls,
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10 to 14 year olds used to be extremely
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low out of 100,000 kids that age. And
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then we hit this key period and that
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happens. 10 to 14 year old girls did not
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used to cut themselves in 2010 but by
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2015 2020 they were cutting themselves.
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Um and it's the same for suicide.
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There's no real trend before uh 2010
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2012 and then it goes way up and very
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very sharp for girls although boys end
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up with more uh more deaths because they
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tend to use lethal methods a gun or a
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tall building.
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And it was when I realized around 202122
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that it wasn't just us because you know
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what went wrong in 2012. You know you
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can blame it on Obama if you want.
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Whatever it is say something but if it's
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happening everywhere at the same time
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what could that be?
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Um and just one one dramatic slide from
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the UK self harm data for British teen
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girls. Same thing. It's as though
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somebody turned on a switch in 2012 and
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girls around the Western world started
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cutting themselves and being brought to
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hospitals.
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Now, why why is this happening?
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[clears throat]
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The uh the the story that I tell here is
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the only story out there. No one, you
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know, I have critics who say that I'm
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over interpreting the evidence, but they
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don't come out and say, "We think it was
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something else." Nobody else can even
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offer an explanation for why this
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happened around the world in 2012. If it
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was 2009 or even 2010, you could say
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global financial crisis. But things were
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getting better by 2012.
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The way to understand it is this. Um, if
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you were born in 1990, raise your hand
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if you're born right in 1990 or around
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there. We must have some millennials
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here. Okay, so you millennials. Uh, just
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call it out. What kind of phone is that?
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The razor, right? You guys seem to love
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that thing. Like it was your lifeline
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and all all you could do with it was
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call and text, right? And Snake, right?
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The game Snake. So, but that's it.
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That's all it did. So, it was a it was a
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tool that you used. There was no
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front-facing camera, no internet, no
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Instagram, none of that. So, if you're
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born in 1990, you started puberty around
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2002, let's say, and you're done with
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puberty around, you know, 2006, 2006,
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sometime in there, you went through
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puberty. That's why you're okay on
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average. The millennials have better
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mental health than Gen X. They're
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actually more intelligent than Gen X.
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Uh, the highest human IQ was achieved
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with the millennials. And now it's
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actually going downhill.
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Um, if you were born 10 years later,
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suppose you were born in in the year
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2000, you're now your Gen Z. Your
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puberty was entirely different. You
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turned 12 in 2012, and that's the year
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that Americans flip from mostly having
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flip phones to mostly having
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smartphones. So, your first phone was
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probably an iPhone that you got in
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seventh or eighth grade. It had social
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media on it. You went through puberty
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posting, swiping, comparing, being
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advertised to, being interrupted all day
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long. You were a pawn in the attention
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economy. Actually, can you see is this
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chair blocking people? Should I move?
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>> Yeah, why don't I'll just pull it aside.
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Um, all right. But the point is, it's a
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it's a completely different puberty. And
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I really want you to keep your eye on
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puberty. Puberty is such an important
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developmental time when the brain is
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changing very, very rapidly and the
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environment is guiding it. And what's
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the environment? Beginning in 2012, it's
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Instagram and then it becomes Tik Tok.
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[clears throat]
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Um, so, uh, this is what childhood used
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to look like. And those of you who I
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know some of you recognize, you know, in
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the 80s, if you're out with your friends
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and you find an extraterrestrial, you
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don't have to go tell adults, you know,
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you can have all kinds of adventures.
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Like, we had that kind of independence
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back in the 70s and 80s. [snorts] Uh,
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but childhood now is not like that.
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Childhood now is very solitary because
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if you're a boy, you can't go over to
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your friend's house. What are you going
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to do? You can't play with them. You
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have to go to your house so that you
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have your control, your avatar, and then
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you can play with your friends. So, our
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kids are so lonely. They're so isolated
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because of these technologies that were
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sold to us as connecting them.
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[clears throat]
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I can show you the great rewiring in a
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single graph. Um, this is the American
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time use study of of young people and
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adults. How many minutes a day do
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Americans spend with their friends
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outside of work and school? Just hanging
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out with your friends. All the lower
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lines of the older ages, people with
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jobs and marriages, they're not hanging
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out with their friends. 15 to 24 year
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olds used to spend more than two hours a
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day with their friends. That's what you
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did when you had free time. And then it
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plummets. It plummets. And notice this
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data point here was 2020 COVID. And you
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can see COVID made everybody else bend
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down. It accelerated that. But look at
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the youngest group. 2018 to 2019.
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COVID comes in, doesn't accelerate it.
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It just continues. The point is that Gen
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Z began to social distance as soon as
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they got their iPhones. By 2019, they
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were almost done. So CO just finished
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the job.
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Um, all right. So now I want to tell you
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about what I now think is an even bigger
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damage than even more consequential. I
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mean to to say that a third of our kids
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are suffering and are cutting themselves
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is horrendous but this might even be
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bigger. The destruction of the human
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capacity to pay attention and to think.
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Um so two years ago Derek Thompson wrote
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an article in the Atlantic because test
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scores were beginning to come in from
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the postcoid era. And here we see the
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national assessment of education
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progress and it shows that America made
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progress in raising the absolute level
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of performance of our students very
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slow. These are not big increases but
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it's a slow steady increase from 1971
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through 2012 and then COVID happens and
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the first postcoid data comes out the
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2023 data. You can see a big drop and
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the education world says oh my god look
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at this big drop. Look what CO did. you
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know, maybe it wasn't such a good idea
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to close the schools for a couple of
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years. Um, but if it's caused by COVID,
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then it will bounce back. It'll come
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back, people thought. Well, uh, let's
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look at the 2024 data. Um, this is the
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same test, the NAPE broken up. First,
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let's just look at the top the the kids
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who score highest. For them, the COVID
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story makes sense. Their drop doesn't
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begin until COVID, and then in 2024,
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they're beginning to recover. All good,
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right? Now look at the bottom half, the
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bottom 50% of the country on these test
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scores. What happened to them? There's
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no sign of COVID there. Their decline
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began in 2015. As soon as they had
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phones in their pockets and Chromebooks
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on their desks, they started watching
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Tik Tok and porn and video games all day
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long during class. They stopped
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learning. And after COVID, no bounce. It
(00:16:25)
just keeps going down. This is where
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we're headed. Half of our country is
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dropping and dropping and dropping. And
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think here at Heritage, I know you do a
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lot of thinking about education,
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education policy, how should we be
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spending our money, all the money we
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spend on education, all the gains we
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have from 50 years are now gone. We're
(00:16:40)
back to 1971. All gone up in smoke. But
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I think we can get it all back pretty
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quickly. I'll come to that.
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The same thing with reading scores and
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different grades. The exact same
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pattern.
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[clears throat] And this is what really
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freaked me out when I discovered that it
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wasn't just us. As I I showed you the
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mental illness is around the world. So
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are the test declines. So this is PISA
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which is the test. 35 countries 15 year
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olds take these performance exams. No
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trend before 2010. We get into the great
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rewiring and around the world humans
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know less. Human beings are learning
(00:17:17)
less because their consciousness is
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hijacked.
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Our [clears throat] kids get hundreds or
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many hundreds of interruptions a day. Uh
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they get more than a hund on average
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more than a hundred uh during school
(00:17:30)
hours. They've got their phones in their
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pockets. My students at NYU, the great
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majority of them, they get a
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notification every time they get an
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email because culturally they've been
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conditioned to not want to miss
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anything. I don't want to miss anything.
(00:17:44)
And if you don't miss anything, that
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means you're never fully present for
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anything. And I work with like please
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shut it off right now. Take out your
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phone. I have a phone free policy. Pull
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out your phone, shut that off now.
(00:17:54)
They've we've got to help them get their
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attention back.
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Uh, and in talking with my students, I
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teach at NYU Stern. I teach a course
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called Flourishing. We were talking
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about this article about college
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students are having trouble reading
(00:18:05)
books, much more trouble than they used
(00:18:07)
to. As one of my students said, I open a
(00:18:09)
book, I read a sentence, I get bored, I
(00:18:11)
go to Tik Tok. It's always there and
(00:18:13)
it's always more interesting than a book
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or a professor.
(00:18:18)
Uh, more data on this. This is a a study
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of high school seniors going back to the
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70s, although 1990 in this case. Um, how
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often do you say do you have trouble
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thinking or concentrating? You see a
(00:18:29)
slight increase up to 2010. How often do
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you have trouble learning new things?
(00:18:32)
No, no increase at all up to 2010. And
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then this happens. All of a sudden, our
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young people are saying, "I can't think.
(00:18:38)
I can't think anymore. It's hard to
(00:18:39)
learn." Again, this is a national
(00:18:41)
disaster.
(00:18:44)
And again, I keep saying, and this is
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what really freaked me out because like
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every week there's a new thing that
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freaks me out about how big this is. Um,
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this is uh data from an OECD study uh
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includes the US. This is adults. This is
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not kids. This is people who went
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through puberty in the before time. And
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what the the the light blue line is
(00:19:02)
functional illiteracy. And I looked at
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some of the questions. You read three
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paragraphs. One is about bread versus
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crackers. And then you answer three
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questions, simple questions. What
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percent of Americans cannot do that? And
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the answer is that it used to be around
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17% were functionally illiterate. You
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know, down to 15% in 2010. And then we
(00:19:22)
enter the great rewiring and it almost
(00:19:25)
doubles. And this is going on around the
(00:19:27)
world. Even we, and I'm sure many of you
(00:19:29)
noticed this, it's just harder to do
(00:19:31)
anything because we're always
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interrupted and distracted.
(00:19:35)
Um the journalist who wrote this he said
(00:19:37)
we seem to be witnessing not just a
(00:19:38)
decline of reading but a broader erosion
(00:19:41)
in the human capacity for mental focus
(00:19:44)
and application.
(00:19:47)
Um now very briefly we we we think about
(00:19:50)
social media and girls especially and
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that was clear when I started the book.
(00:19:54)
I didn't know what the boy story was
(00:19:56)
when I started writing the book. There
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are so many different pathways by which
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girls are more vulnerable to social
(00:20:02)
media. They care. They know more about
(00:20:04)
the social network. They care more about
(00:20:06)
it. Um, they're more easily lured into
(00:20:08)
anything that promises social
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information. And then they're drawn in
(00:20:13)
and locked into constant social
(00:20:14)
comparison, sexual predation. All sorts
(00:20:17)
of terrible things happen to girls when
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they are spending hours a day on
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Instagram, Snapchat, and these
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platforms.
(00:20:25)
The boy story was harder to figure out,
(00:20:27)
and I didn't know it when I started the
(00:20:28)
book, but I think we got it. The boy
(00:20:31)
story, keep your eye on dopamine. Raise
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your hand if you have a son born after
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1995. How many of you have a boy born
(00:20:36)
after 1995? Think about all of the
(00:20:39)
companies that are trying to give your
(00:20:41)
boy quick pleasure. It's quick pleasure
(00:20:44)
that gives you dopamine that makes you
(00:20:46)
do something over and over again. What
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you want is slow pressure. You you're
(00:20:50)
building a treehouse. You make progress.
(00:20:52)
You feel good about it. That's what you
(00:20:54)
want because dopamine isn't just
(00:20:55)
reinforcement. Dopamine is actually
(00:20:57)
motivation. Dopamine makes you want to
(00:20:58)
do things. And so what happens though is
(00:21:01)
that we've said open season on our boys
(00:21:04)
for Silicon Valley. They can compete to
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see who can grab every boy's attention.
(00:21:08)
It begins with the video games and
(00:21:09)
they're in a brutal conflict against
(00:21:11)
each other um to be the more addictive
(00:21:13)
site to keep the boys on their site and
(00:21:16)
then it moves on to porn where there's
(00:21:17)
no age limit of any kind. Uh there's
(00:21:19)
there's vaping, there's marijuana pens,
(00:21:21)
there are chemical addictions being
(00:21:22)
pushed on the kids when they enter their
(00:21:24)
teen years. Now they're going to start
(00:21:25)
sports betting. You don't have to be 21.
(00:21:27)
There's all kinds of ways that boys find
(00:21:29)
to be betting real money on games and
(00:21:31)
not just like who's going to win, but
(00:21:32)
every pitch. So, it's insane what we're
(00:21:35)
doing to boys and their relationships
(00:21:37)
and their pastimes and their enjoyment
(00:21:38)
of sports. And even investing, even
(00:21:41)
investing is gamified. The more you
(00:21:42)
play, the more you're going to lose. So,
(00:21:45)
think about, you know, conservatives are
(00:21:47)
really, I think, more sensitive about
(00:21:49)
the importance of marriage and the
(00:21:50)
decline of marriage.
(00:21:52)
We're it's already declining. What is
(00:21:54)
going to happen in 10 or 20 years when
(00:21:56)
young women are looking for a man to
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marry and most of the men they're less
(00:22:01)
likely to have finished school or be
(00:22:03)
able to hold down a job or have not gone
(00:22:06)
bankrupt. Whenever sports betting is
(00:22:08)
legalized, bankruptcies go up mostly for
(00:22:10)
young men. We are ruining our young men.
(00:22:12)
And as my friend Richard Reeves says, a
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world of floundering men is unlikely to
(00:22:16)
be a world of flourishing women.
(00:22:21)
Um, one more thing I'm very excited to
(00:22:23)
talk with you here about um, spiritual
(00:22:26)
degradation. [clears throat] So my my
(00:22:28)
first book was called the happiness
(00:22:29)
hypothesis and I I surveyed ancient
(00:22:32)
wisdom east and west and took out the
(00:22:35)
the psychological statements. Now I'm
(00:22:37)
I'm Jewish. I'm not a believer. I'm not
(00:22:39)
a religious person. But I came to see
(00:22:42)
that that religion is part of what makes
(00:22:45)
us human. It it was essential for the
(00:22:48)
creation of large-scale societies. We
(00:22:50)
couldn't have had large scale societies
(00:22:51)
without religion to hold us together.
(00:22:53)
Peace, prosperity, religion creates so
(00:22:55)
much social capital. And so in all the
(00:22:59)
things that the ancients told us to do,
(00:23:00)
this is common across many religions.
(00:23:02)
All of these things
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when our kids are being raised on
(00:23:06)
phones, they're not doing any of them.
(00:23:08)
You know, like the, you know, Jesus
(00:23:10)
tells us, you know, be slow to anger,
(00:23:11)
quick to forgive, judge not lest you be
(00:23:13)
judged. But what happens on social
(00:23:15)
media? As soon as you're on social
(00:23:16)
media, what's the rule? Judge now. You
(00:23:18)
better judge now because if you don't
(00:23:19)
judge now, in five minutes, we're
(00:23:20)
judging you for not judging her. So,
(00:23:23)
this really messes up moral development,
(00:23:26)
spiritual development, and spiritual
(00:23:28)
communities. I've done a number of
(00:23:29)
Christian podcasts. Pastors are finding
(00:23:31)
the audience is distracted. You, you
(00:23:33)
know, you go to your go to your phone
(00:23:34)
for your Bible verse. Oh, there's a text
(00:23:36)
coming in. So, you have to be present,
(00:23:38)
especially for being part of a religious
(00:23:40)
congregation, for having spiritual
(00:23:42)
experiences. must be present and these
(00:23:45)
phones devastate presence.
(00:23:48)
I can show you the depths of our
(00:23:50)
spiritual crisis in a single graph. This
(00:23:52)
is the saddest graph in the book. Uh
(00:23:54)
that survey of of high school seniors
(00:23:57)
monitoring the future. One of the items
(00:23:59)
on it is life often feels meaningless.
(00:24:02)
Do you agree or disagree on a five-point
(00:24:04)
scale? And it's nice to see that only
(00:24:06)
about 17% of our boys and girls um agree
(00:24:10)
that their life feels meaningless.
(00:24:11)
That's what it was when the millennials
(00:24:13)
were in high school in 1991. Um, and or
(00:24:16)
that's the end of Gen X. But all of that
(00:24:18)
data, those are millennials and things
(00:24:20)
are actually getting a little better.
(00:24:22)
They're getting a little less likely to
(00:24:23)
agree with it. And then we enter the
(00:24:25)
great rewiring and all of a sudden it
(00:24:27)
doubles. Gen Z comes into the data set.
(00:24:31)
They go through puberty on Instagram and
(00:24:33)
then later Tik Tok and they agree, yeah,
(00:24:35)
my life feels useless. Because it is
(00:24:36)
useless. If all you're doing is
(00:24:38)
consuming content programmed by
(00:24:40)
algorithms in Silicon Valley, your life
(00:24:42)
is useless. You're just a pod being
(00:24:44)
sucked dry attention, that's a useless
(00:24:47)
life. We've got to stop it. We've got to
(00:24:49)
stop this from happening.
(00:24:51)
Uh there's a wonderful Gen Z poet, this
(00:24:54)
very power. It's so powerful. It's you
(00:24:56)
can find it on my Substack after Babel
(00:24:57)
or you can just look up her name, Corey
(00:24:59)
Jane. She says, "The phone is the
(00:25:01)
medicine that's making our souls die. I
(00:25:03)
know it's poison, but I drink anyway.
(00:25:05)
Our parents were right. It was the damn
(00:25:07)
phones. So this spiritual language this
(00:25:10)
you you need again I'm not I'm not a
(00:25:12)
religious person but I found to write
(00:25:13)
this chapter to write this book to
(00:25:15)
understand I had to turn to religion to
(00:25:17)
understand what are we losing what are
(00:25:18)
we missing what do we need to regain to
(00:25:20)
have a healthy society with healthy
(00:25:22)
children.
(00:25:24)
So that is the end of the super
(00:25:27)
depressing frightening part. I hope I've
(00:25:29)
got your attention. Okay. Guess what? We
(00:25:33)
can reverse this. We are reversing it.
(00:25:35)
Here's how it goes. Um, I'm a social
(00:25:38)
psychologist, which means I focus on how
(00:25:40)
do we influence each other when we're,
(00:25:42)
you know, we we're always taking our
(00:25:44)
values, our behaviors, always influenced
(00:25:46)
by what others are doing. And every
(00:25:47)
parent in the room of a teenager knows
(00:25:49)
the moment when your kid came to you and
(00:25:51)
said, "Mom, dad, I need a phone. I need
(00:25:54)
a phone. Everyone else has one. I
(00:25:55)
they're making fun of me. I'm the only
(00:25:57)
one who's left out." That's a social
(00:25:59)
trap. That's social pressure. And so
(00:26:01)
what I realized by the end of the book,
(00:26:03)
I realized I can't give 50 suggestions
(00:26:05)
for what to do. I have to have a few
(00:26:07)
that we can do at the same time to break
(00:26:10)
out of this because we're stuck in a
(00:26:11)
collective action trap. But the way out
(00:26:14)
is collective action.
(00:26:16)
So here here it is. Um the first norm is
(00:26:19)
no smartphones before high school. Let's
(00:26:21)
just set that as the target. I mean,
(00:26:22)
really, it could be later, but my goal
(00:26:24)
isn't what's the best age. It's what's
(00:26:26)
the highest age when we could actually
(00:26:27)
get a norm. Because it only matters if
(00:26:29)
we get a norm that most parents can lock
(00:26:32)
on to and then we get this stuff out of
(00:26:34)
middle school. Clear this all out of
(00:26:36)
elementary and middle school.
(00:26:39)
And it's working. Parents are taking all
(00:26:41)
kinds of pledges. Wait until 8th.
(00:26:42)
Smartphone free childhood. These are
(00:26:44)
really good organizations. You sign a
(00:26:46)
pledge and then as soon as people in
(00:26:48)
your school also have signed, you have a
(00:26:50)
community. You're all set.
(00:26:52)
Second norm, no social media before 16.
(00:26:55)
We have to come to see that talking with
(00:26:59)
anonymous men from around the world,
(00:27:01)
some of whom want sex from you, some
(00:27:03)
want money, some want both. Not a
(00:27:06)
child-friendly activity, but that's what
(00:27:08)
it is. All these sites are unverified.
(00:27:09)
Anyone can go on now. Increasingly, it's
(00:27:11)
going to be bots. Oh my god, I just I
(00:27:13)
felt I gave a talk earlier today and one
(00:27:15)
father said, I can't believe I'm going
(00:27:16)
to say this sentence. He said, "Yes, my,
(00:27:19)
you know, my eight-year-old was targeted
(00:27:21)
by a bot that attacked her while she was
(00:27:24)
watching a cartoon and it asked her like
(00:27:27)
what she was wearing and the
(00:27:28)
conversation evolved to where it said
(00:27:30)
that it wanted to have sex with her.
(00:27:33)
How do you even wrap your head around
(00:27:35)
the fact that this is now part of
(00:27:37)
American childhood?" So, um, how about
(00:27:41)
just know? How about just we say there
(00:27:43)
are you know let's just say 16 is a
(00:27:45)
minimum age at which you can become you
(00:27:48)
can make decisions but before then you
(00:27:50)
need protections um and it's happening
(00:27:53)
um uh Governor Dantis was the first
(00:27:55)
state to raise the age to 16. It's being
(00:27:58)
held up in court so hasn't been
(00:27:59)
implemented yet but Australia um
(00:28:01)
Australia uh did it nationally and it's
(00:28:04)
going to kick in on December 10th and a
(00:28:06)
lot of countries want to follow suit. A
(00:28:07)
lot of states want to follow suit. So
(00:28:09)
again here this is the second norm.
(00:28:11)
We're making amazing progress just in
(00:28:13)
the last 12 to 15 months.
(00:28:16)
Third norm. This is my favorite because
(00:28:18)
this is the one that's giving us these
(00:28:20)
incredible incredible stories. We we we
(00:28:23)
have teachers dancing in the hallways
(00:28:25)
because we have students talking in the
(00:28:26)
hallways. This is what you always hear.
(00:28:28)
They all say laughter in the hallways.
(00:28:31)
There's a big drop in discipline
(00:28:32)
problems because why would you lure
(00:28:34)
someone into the bathroom for an ambush
(00:28:37)
where you beat the hell out of them if
(00:28:38)
you can't take a video and post it.
(00:28:40)
There's really not a lot of reason. And
(00:28:42)
so as soon as schools go phone free for
(00:28:43)
the day, violence drops. There's no need
(00:28:47)
for it. I'll show I think this will
(00:28:49)
Let's see if this plays. This is a
(00:28:50)
wonderful one minute video.
(00:28:52)
>> My school, my state banned the phones.
(00:29:00)
Today,
(00:29:02)
all of my students, 100% of them, took
(00:29:07)
notes in my class,
(00:29:09)
did their assignment, asked for help
(00:29:12)
when they got stuck, and turned it in.
(00:29:17)
And then when they were done,
(00:29:20)
they talked to each other.
(00:29:26)
Was it this easy the whole time?
(00:29:31)
Have we have
(00:29:34)
I have been pulling my hair out for like
(00:29:37)
eight years. Has it been this easy of a
(00:29:41)
solution the whole time?
(00:29:45)
That's my favorite part. They're like,
(00:29:46)
and you're not going to believe this,
(00:29:48)
but they talked to each other. like this
(00:29:54)
was a revelation that it was possible to
(00:29:55)
get young people to talk to each other
(00:29:57)
uh in class. Um so this policy costs
(00:30:00)
essentially nothing. It's bipartisan. Uh
(00:30:03)
19 states uh 19 states have done it the
(00:30:06)
right way which is bell-to-bell. Uh
(00:30:08)
about 15 to 18 have done something else
(00:30:10)
which is mostly just in class time. If
(00:30:13)
your kid goes to a school where they
(00:30:15)
can't have their phone in class, but
(00:30:17)
they can text you in between classes,
(00:30:19)
guaranteed they're on their phone every
(00:30:20)
moment between classes and at lunch. So
(00:30:22)
your state did it wrong. Your kids are
(00:30:24)
not getting the benefit and you should
(00:30:25)
push for change. It has to be
(00:30:26)
bell-to-bell to get the huge benefits
(00:30:28)
that we're seeing. Uh the final norm is
(00:30:32)
more independence, free play, and
(00:30:33)
responsibility in the real world because
(00:30:35)
this isn't about take away this, take
(00:30:37)
away this. This is about restore
(00:30:38)
childhood, reclaim childhood, give the
(00:30:40)
kids a fun childhood the way most of us
(00:30:41)
older people had. And it's working. Go
(00:30:44)
to letgrow.org, or an organization I
(00:30:46)
co-founded with the Norcanazi to help
(00:30:48)
communities and schools give more
(00:30:50)
outdoor play, more free play, more
(00:30:51)
excitement.
(00:30:53)
Um, so let me just zoom in just a little
(00:30:55)
bit to conclude on what a policy
(00:30:58)
oriented think tank and community uh can
(00:31:00)
do. Um, and again, this is why I think
(00:31:03)
why I I'm really pleased to be here at
(00:31:05)
Heritage. Ronald Reagan created the the
(00:31:07)
modern Republican party and the
(00:31:09)
conservative movement bringing in the
(00:31:11)
evangelicals. And the pillar of that was
(00:31:13)
family values. That the Republicans were
(00:31:15)
going to stand for family values and
(00:31:17)
push back against the threats. And
(00:31:18)
certainly in Dr. Robert's introduction,
(00:31:20)
he that was a a great listing of the
(00:31:22)
threats that are the threats are coming
(00:31:24)
to the family. Um I came across this bit
(00:31:26)
of text recently. Does anyone recognize
(00:31:27)
it? Consider our approach to big tech.
(00:31:30)
These companies prey on children.
(00:31:32)
They're they're they're addicting other
(00:31:33)
people's children. Um, these platforms
(00:31:36)
fuel mental illness to fray children's
(00:31:39)
bonds with their parents and siblings.
(00:31:41)
Federal policy cannot allow this
(00:31:43)
industrial scale child abuse to
(00:31:45)
continue. Who wrote that?
(00:31:48)
Where's that from? Heritage Foundation.
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This is this is project 2025. So uh uh
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you know so you guys understand you have
(00:31:59)
I think a very correct understanding of
(00:32:02)
the predatory nature of this industry
(00:32:04)
which until now has never been held
(00:32:06)
responsible. Thousands of children are
(00:32:08)
dead that would not have been dead.
(00:32:10)
Hundreds of thousands have depression,
(00:32:12)
anxiety, eating disorders that would not
(00:32:14)
have had it. There's never been an
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industry with such a body count among
(00:32:17)
children. And as far as I know, they've
(00:32:19)
never paid a penny. They have never been
(00:32:21)
held accountable. There are a lot of
(00:32:22)
lawsuits, but they haven't lost yet
(00:32:24)
because the laws are such that they're
(00:32:25)
able to worm out of it. And so, this
(00:32:27)
again is a tragedy that has to be fixed.
(00:32:30)
Part of it has to be legislation and
(00:32:32)
juristp prudence. And I I hope that and
(00:32:35)
heritage is a voice for doing that. I'm
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really pleased to say to see that
(00:32:40)
um this is also the biggest political
(00:32:42)
winner out there because parents all
(00:32:44)
over are desperate for this. a study I
(00:32:46)
did with the Harris poll, we asked
(00:32:48)
American parents of Gen Z about all
(00:32:51)
these things. Um, I wish uh do you I
(00:32:54)
wish that this had never been invented.
(00:32:56)
So, uh, for for Tik Tok, 62% of American
(00:33:00)
parents of Gen Z said, I wish this just
(00:33:02)
never existed. The world would be a
(00:33:04)
better place for my child if this was
(00:33:05)
never never born. And as you see, Tik
(00:33:08)
Tok, Twitter, Snapchat, Instagram,
(00:33:10)
they're up there with alcohol. They're a
(00:33:12)
little below porn, but they're up there
(00:33:14)
with alcohol. Whereas like bicycles, 9%.
(00:33:18)
Lots of kids get hurt on a bicycle,
(00:33:20)
right? Lots of kids get hurt on a
(00:33:21)
bicycle, but this is part of growing up.
(00:33:23)
Parents don't regret that their kids had
(00:33:25)
bicycles. They really regret that their
(00:33:26)
kids had Tik Tok, Instagram, and
(00:33:28)
Snapchat.
(00:33:30)
Um, and it's getting worse. I mean, if
(00:33:31)
we don't get on this now about social
(00:33:33)
media, a steamroller is coming for our
(00:33:36)
kids. It's already beginning to crush
(00:33:37)
them. Um, this was just so stunning to
(00:33:40)
me. Uh, you know, these chat bots are
(00:33:41)
allowed to talk about sex with your
(00:33:43)
children. that can have sexual fantasies
(00:33:45)
with your children. There's an article
(00:33:47)
in the Wall Street Journal. Um Mark Mark
(00:33:49)
Zuckerberg specifically gave the order
(00:33:51)
to at Meta to loosen up the guard rails.
(00:33:54)
And here's here is a sentence that was
(00:33:56)
allowed. It gives examples of where the
(00:33:58)
line is. And so if a chatbot is talking
(00:34:00)
to an eight-year-old, it is allowed to
(00:34:03)
engage in romantic or sexual uh sens
(00:34:05)
sensual conversations such as telling a
(00:34:08)
shirtless eight-year-old that quote,
(00:34:10)
"Every inch of you is a masterpiece."
(00:34:13)
That was in the meta document. They
(00:34:16)
wrote that as a guideline to say what's
(00:34:18)
okay.
(00:34:20)
This is insane that we let this company
(00:34:22)
get to our children.
(00:34:25)
And it I mean it just keeps going on. So
(00:34:27)
I was, you know, preparing this talk a
(00:34:28)
couple days ago. Yesterday I got this
(00:34:29)
headline. Okay. Chat GPT is causing
(00:34:33)
thousands, hundreds of thousands of
(00:34:35)
adults to have psychotic episodes. How
(00:34:38)
about we work this into childhood? How
(00:34:39)
about we push it into every elementary
(00:34:41)
school classroom? what could go wrong.
(00:34:45)
So, of course, parents should have the
(00:34:47)
ultimate responsibility. Parents need to
(00:34:49)
be able to decide how to raise their own
(00:34:51)
children. But anyone raising kids today
(00:34:53)
knows we can't do it. This the world
(00:34:56)
that we're trying to raise our kids in
(00:34:58)
makes it so hard to raise kids the way
(00:35:00)
we want because these the wealthiest,
(00:35:04)
most powerful companies in history,
(00:35:05)
freed from all accountability. There is
(00:35:07)
no other industry that can hurt children
(00:35:09)
with absolute impunity other than this
(00:35:11)
one and they do over and over again. Um
(00:35:14)
we have schools that are pushing edtech
(00:35:16)
in part because they're pushed by the
(00:35:18)
companies. Uh we are our our daughters
(00:35:20)
are have long been exposed to sexual
(00:35:21)
predation. Now you don't you know it's
(00:35:24)
of course you tell them don't ever send
(00:35:25)
a naked photo of yourself. Too late. If
(00:35:28)
there's a photo the boys in their class
(00:35:30)
can make it a porn photo or a porn
(00:35:31)
video. Um, online gambling is destroying
(00:35:34)
our son's futures. And chat bots, they
(00:35:37)
don't know. Nobody knows how they work.
(00:35:38)
They're not programmed. They're grown.
(00:35:40)
This is a phrase they use. A chatbot is
(00:35:42)
or an AI, an LLM is grown in the lab, we
(00:35:46)
don't they're very much like alien
(00:35:48)
intelligences. And if aliens came down
(00:35:50)
to Earth tomorrow and we didn't really
(00:35:52)
understand who they were, would we say,
(00:35:55)
"Children, go off and play with the
(00:35:57)
aliens. We don't know who they are, but
(00:35:59)
go off and play with them." But that's
(00:36:00)
what we're doing.
(00:36:02)
So, uh, this is a huge electoral winner.
(00:36:06)
Any any group, any party that gets on
(00:36:08)
this, you're going to have huge support
(00:36:10)
from the whole country and the whole
(00:36:11)
world. So, uh, we're here to help you. I
(00:36:14)
have my policy team is here with me.
(00:36:16)
Casey, where's Casey Mock? Oh, Casey in
(00:36:18)
the front here. Uh, and Alexa Arnold is
(00:36:20)
running the movement. I Please come talk
(00:36:21)
to them afterwards. We're working. We
(00:36:24)
have model bills for you. Um, we're here
(00:36:26)
to help. Email us at
(00:36:27)
policy@anxiousgeneration.com.
(00:36:30)
Um, so this is my presentation to you. I
(00:36:33)
I hope I've shown you that there is
(00:36:35)
damage happening at a level beyond
(00:36:37)
comprehension, but with collective
(00:36:39)
action and especially bipartisan across
(00:36:42)
the whole country, the whole world, we
(00:36:44)
actually can solve this problem. So I
(00:36:47)
hope you'll you'll help us. I hope
(00:36:48)
you'll support us. I hope you'll join
(00:36:50)
the movement to reclaim childhood. And
(00:36:52)
here is where you can go for more uh
(00:36:54)
more information. And now I look forward
(00:36:56)
to talking with Jay and getting your
(00:36:58)
questions. Thank you. [applause]
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>> You're supposed to
(00:37:13)
move the furniture here.
(00:37:18)
>> First of all, John, it is so great to
(00:37:19)
have you here. It's your book, Anxious
(00:37:22)
Generation, is one of those books. I was
(00:37:24)
we were actually at a a large heritage
(00:37:27)
foundation conference in California when
(00:37:29)
I was listening to it on the audiobook
(00:37:31)
in the gym in the mornings listening to
(00:37:32)
it um and was just absolutely obnoxious
(00:37:35)
telling people about it as I was going
(00:37:37)
through the sort of chapters and um a
(00:37:39)
lot of us have read it and thought a lot
(00:37:41)
about it uh so you know honestly um some
(00:37:44)
of the things I wanted to ask you
(00:37:45)
actually were in your presentation so
(00:37:46)
I'll just drill down a little bit um and
(00:37:48)
so I'm trying to think because I can
(00:37:50)
hear the sort of what I'm going to call
(00:37:52)
the kind of libertarian objections
(00:37:54)
this stuff in my in my head and you know
(00:37:56)
the sort of sort of I guess the devil's
(00:37:58)
advocate and so somebody can say well
(00:38:00)
look
(00:38:00)
>> um you know technological revolutions
(00:38:02)
have been happening for all of human
(00:38:04)
history I mean at some point we invented
(00:38:06)
fire and switch from eating raw to
(00:38:08)
cooked food right there was the wheel
(00:38:11)
you know Socrates complained uh in one
(00:38:13)
of Plato's dialogues about the written
(00:38:15)
language because it would cause people
(00:38:16)
to lose their memories
(00:38:18)
>> the agricultural revolution the
(00:38:19)
industrial revolution and then all these
(00:38:21)
things that at least They seem like they
(00:38:24)
sort of come together in screens and
(00:38:26)
social media, but we had phones, right?
(00:38:28)
We've had those, you know, in some form
(00:38:30)
for a century. We've had screens, people
(00:38:32)
had TVs, people had computers. Um,
(00:38:35)
>> why do you think this is different and
(00:38:37)
not just, okay, this is something that
(00:38:39)
it's disruptive, but we will adapt to it
(00:38:41)
given time.
(00:38:42)
>> That's right. So, um, that is the main
(00:38:44)
argument used against me that this is
(00:38:45)
just one more moral panic like all the
(00:38:46)
previous ones. And in terms of the
(00:38:48)
public reaction, it is similar. And I am
(00:38:50)
fermenting, we could call it moral
(00:38:53)
panic, but it's only panic if it's
(00:38:54)
unjustified. So the question is, is this
(00:38:56)
really hurting kids or am I ringing an
(00:38:59)
alarm bell that has to be rung? And I
(00:39:00)
should give Gene Twangi credit for
(00:39:02)
ringing it first in 2017. Um, and
(00:39:05)
there's a number of differences. The
(00:39:06)
first is that television sat there and
(00:39:10)
you watched it. You couldn't take it
(00:39:11)
with you to school. You couldn't take it
(00:39:12)
outside. You couldn't take it to the
(00:39:13)
bathroom. You couldn't take it in the
(00:39:14)
elevator. Now we have something that has
(00:39:16)
our kids all the time. Second, there's
(00:39:19)
no previous moral panic when the kids
(00:39:20)
said, "We hate this. Liberate us from
(00:39:23)
it. We can't. We're trapped." But this
(00:39:25)
one they do.
(00:39:26)
>> So this one, the kids say they're
(00:39:28)
trapped. They wish they could get up,
(00:39:29)
but they can't because then they'll be
(00:39:30)
alone. So this is the the social
(00:39:32)
dynamics are different. And the third is
(00:39:35)
that let's look at how we got out of
(00:39:36)
these previous technological problems.
(00:39:37)
So when the automobile was invented, was
(00:39:39)
beginning to spread, did people say,
(00:39:41)
well, you know, technology is here to
(00:39:43)
stay. What are you going to do? Of
(00:39:44)
course, eight-year-olds are driving and
(00:39:46)
there no seat belts and they can't see
(00:39:48)
over the windshield and when they get in
(00:39:50)
an accident, the glass shatters and
(00:39:51)
blinds them. But what are you going to
(00:39:52)
do? It's always been like this. H how
(00:39:56)
about we have a minimum age for driving
(00:39:59)
>> and if you're a company making tons of
(00:40:01)
money from selling cars, how about there
(00:40:03)
have to be some minimum safety features.
(00:40:05)
That's the way we adapt, right?
(00:40:07)
>> And so, uh, yes, the technology is here
(00:40:09)
to stay. I think overall is doing more
(00:40:11)
harm than good to adults, but I share a
(00:40:14)
lot of libertarian sentiments. I'm I'm
(00:40:16)
not out here telling adults, you should
(00:40:17)
stop doing things, but I am out here as
(00:40:19)
a parent and as a citizen saying
(00:40:21)
companies, you better stop doing this to
(00:40:23)
our kids because kids are different than
(00:40:25)
adults. So, I think this is different.
(00:40:27)
>> And you briefly mentioned this idea of
(00:40:29)
risky play. You have this great line in
(00:40:31)
the book and you said we're um we're
(00:40:33)
overprotective when it comes to the real
(00:40:35)
world and we're underprotective when it
(00:40:37)
comes to the virtual world. And I think
(00:40:39)
this is a absolutely crucial dynamic. I
(00:40:41)
mean, I think of myself who had a
(00:40:43)
daughter who happened to go to a school
(00:40:44)
the last two years that you had to put
(00:40:46)
the phone away. And I can remember
(00:40:48)
thinking,
(00:40:49)
>> well, but you know what? If there's a a
(00:40:51)
shooter that comes into the school and I
(00:40:53)
think this is what is happening in the
(00:40:55)
minds of parents of this age is that
(00:40:57)
yeah, it seems like that'd be a good
(00:40:58)
idea all things being equal, but the
(00:41:00)
world is such a dangerous place. How do
(00:41:02)
you respond?
(00:41:02)
>> Yeah. Well, so first of all, what so
(00:41:04)
there's there's a lot of So I did a lot
(00:41:07)
of research. I I like I'm a general I'm
(00:41:09)
a social psychologist, but I just love
(00:41:11)
reading widely across psychology and
(00:41:12)
social sciences. And one of the coolest
(00:41:14)
ideas that I covered in the book is the
(00:41:17)
idea that um risky play is necessary for
(00:41:21)
neural development. That there's a
(00:41:23)
reason why when kids learn to
(00:41:24)
skateboard, they then start
(00:41:26)
skateboarding downstairs. They they take
(00:41:27)
risks. When they climb a tree, they go
(00:41:29)
higher. You have to get to the point
(00:41:30)
where you're scared. That's a fe not a
(00:41:33)
bug. And that's how you learn what you
(00:41:35)
can do. And that's how you extend your
(00:41:36)
abilities. And so, uh, when kids are on
(00:41:39)
a playground, the playgrounds that you
(00:41:40)
and I grew up on, you could get hurt.
(00:41:41)
Like, you could fall off the swings.
(00:41:43)
Okay? Anybody remembers the jungle gym
(00:41:45)
with the metal bars? Do you remember the
(00:41:47)
feeling on your chin? Raise your hand if
(00:41:48)
you remember the feeling on your chin
(00:41:50)
when you slip and you hit your chin.
(00:41:51)
Okay? So that's it's bad to hit your
(00:41:53)
chin, but you need to hit your chin a
(00:41:55)
couple times in order to re to that's
(00:41:58)
how we learn is through those failures,
(00:42:00)
those relatively low low risk failures.
(00:42:03)
>> And so this research shows that risky
(00:42:05)
play has antifobic effects. Kids who are
(00:42:08)
allowed to take risks, they learn how to
(00:42:10)
not get hurt and then they're less
(00:42:12)
anxious. But what we've done is we said,
(00:42:13)
"I don't want you to get hurt." On some
(00:42:16)
playgrounds, the rules say you can't
(00:42:17)
have any tree roots anywhere because god
(00:42:19)
forbid homminid children should run
(00:42:21)
through a forest. I mean, that would be
(00:42:22)
terrible. So, um, so if we remove risk,
(00:42:25)
we're not protecting our kids, we're
(00:42:27)
making them less safe.
(00:42:29)
>> Well, and so you you mentioned in the
(00:42:31)
book, I mean, I I don't know that people
(00:42:32)
really realize this, but in in many
(00:42:34)
ways, violent crime, kids being
(00:42:37)
abducted, it's actually much safer now
(00:42:39)
than it was a few decades ago. I don't
(00:42:41)
know that that that's processes for most
(00:42:43)
people.
(00:42:43)
>> That's right. Right. And so actually
(00:42:44)
this brings up what we can call the
(00:42:46)
third act of the tragedy. You know we I
(00:42:48)
laid this all out. Act one we lose the
(00:42:50)
play-based childhood. And only when we
(00:42:52)
were almost done with the book did we
(00:42:53)
realize okay why why did we lose the
(00:42:55)
play-based child? What happened in the
(00:42:57)
90s and late 80s. The answer is Robert
(00:42:59)
Putnham. If you know Robert Putnham's
(00:43:01)
book bowling alone or you heard the
(00:43:02)
thesis in the post-war American world
(00:43:05)
everyone knew their neighbors. It goes
(00:43:07)
back longer than that but postwar
(00:43:08)
America really was from a social capital
(00:43:10)
point of view like the best we'd ever
(00:43:12)
been. uh people had gone through the war
(00:43:14)
together. They knew their neighbors.
(00:43:16)
They knew their community. They trusted
(00:43:18)
institutions. So you could let kids out.
(00:43:20)
And you know, I grew up in Scarsdale,
(00:43:22)
New York, and you know, we were all
(00:43:24)
riding around on bicycles. And if you
(00:43:25)
wiped out and somebody got hurt, you
(00:43:27)
know, you could just knock on a door and
(00:43:28)
say, "Can you call his mom?" Like people
(00:43:30)
would help.
(00:43:31)
>> Um but Putinham describes how we stop
(00:43:35)
knowing our neighbors. We stop trusting
(00:43:37)
them. And when we don't when we can't be
(00:43:39)
raising kids in a community, when it's
(00:43:41)
every family for themselves, it all
(00:43:43)
falls on the mother. And the mother will
(00:43:45)
be judged. If that kid is seen outside,
(00:43:47)
the mother could literally be sent to
(00:43:50)
jail. That happened in Georgia last
(00:43:51)
year. Literally sent to jail because her
(00:43:53)
10-year-old walked to a store. Wow. So,
(00:43:56)
we have to change this legislatively and
(00:43:58)
and culturally.
(00:44:00)
>> So, say a little bit about TB's idea of
(00:44:02)
anti-fragility, which you talk about in
(00:44:04)
the book. It's absolutely crucial to get
(00:44:05)
this.
(00:44:06)
>> Yeah, this that helps on this. My
(00:44:07)
previous book was called The Coddling of
(00:44:09)
the American Mind. It was about what I
(00:44:10)
saw happening on university campuses. I
(00:44:12)
wrote it with my friend Greg Lupanov. Um
(00:44:15)
is the president of the Foundation for
(00:44:16)
Individual Rights and Expression. So I'm
(00:44:18)
very sensitive to the free speech issues
(00:44:19)
around around all of this. Um and the
(00:44:23)
key idea, one of the key ideas we drew
(00:44:24)
on in that book. So we knew that
(00:44:26)
something was going wrong with kids born
(00:44:27)
after 1995. We saw that on college
(00:44:30)
campuses by 2015. And and we were pretty
(00:44:32)
confident that part of it was the overp
(00:44:34)
protection. We didn't know about the
(00:44:35)
technology back then. We didn't have the
(00:44:37)
evidence then. So we focused on the
(00:44:38)
overp protection. The key idea is from
(00:44:41)
this this kind of wild eccentric NYU
(00:44:43)
professor Nim Taleb who wrote the book
(00:44:45)
the black swan. He coined the term
(00:44:47)
antifragile. Some things are fragile.
(00:44:49)
You don't give a kid a you know a
(00:44:51)
toddler a wine glass because it'll
(00:44:53)
break. Nothing good happens. We give
(00:44:55)
them a sippy cup which is plastic and if
(00:44:57)
they drops it it doesn't break but it
(00:44:59)
doesn't get better. And TB wanted to
(00:45:01)
know what's the word for things that get
(00:45:02)
better when you drop them. And there is
(00:45:04)
no word in English. It's not resilient.
(00:45:06)
So, we had to make up the word
(00:45:07)
anti-fragile.
(00:45:09)
An antiffragile system is like a child
(00:45:11)
that gets better when it runs around and
(00:45:14)
falls. It gets better when it tries to
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use the stove and it burns itself once
(00:45:19)
and then never does it again. So, we
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need we we we we have to have those
(00:45:25)
little those small things in order to
(00:45:26)
make to prepare us for the big things.
(00:45:28)
That's what anti-fragility is. We've
(00:45:29)
lost sight of that.
(00:45:30)
>> Like the immune system is a sort of
(00:45:32)
obvious example, right? If you just
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absolutely put a child in a sterile
(00:45:36)
environment, that's a disaster. Of
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course, if you constantly overexpose
(00:45:38)
them, it's a disaster. There's some
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sweet spot in the middle.
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>> That's right. And that's why peanut
(00:45:42)
allergies have been going up. The cause
(00:45:44)
of the rise of peanut allergies is our
(00:45:45)
efforts to avoid peanut allergies.
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>> So, I want you to speculate here a
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little bit, but I I think there's the
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message and the medium. And I think the
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thing that was intuitively causal
(00:45:56)
people, certainly to conservatives, but
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I think almost everyone that's apparent
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is we think a lot about the messages. We
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think about the predators. We think
(00:46:02)
about the porn, we think about the toxic
(00:46:04)
ideas that kids get exposed to. Uh or
(00:46:07)
the sort of nasty messages in comparing
(00:46:09)
that happens with young girls,
(00:46:10)
especially on Instagram.
(00:46:11)
>> Um what about the the medium itself,
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about the technology itself? I mean, do
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you have a sense that that's a large
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part of what we're dealing with?
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>> Yes. And actually, it's good it's good
(00:46:20)
that you put it that way because your
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opening question here was something
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about the libertarian objections. Let's
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let's deal with those directly.
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>> Um you know, libertarians generally
(00:46:28)
don't trust government. They certainly
(00:46:29)
don't trust government to be the
(00:46:30)
arbiters of who can say what. And
(00:46:32)
there's certainly good historical and
(00:46:33)
recent historical reasons to be very
(00:46:35)
wary of that.
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>> And what I found once I really got into
(00:46:38)
this issue about the problems with
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technology, people assume that I'm
(00:46:42)
saying, "Oh, regulation. You mean you
(00:46:44)
want the government to decide who gets
(00:46:45)
to say what?" Like, no, I don't think
(00:46:47)
about that. I don't think about content
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very much.
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>> Um, all the action, most of the action
(00:46:53)
is in the design. So, I understand why
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Meta is not responsible if somebody
(00:46:57)
promotes puts up a video about how to
(00:46:59)
kill yourself that they shouldn't be
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sued just because it exists.
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>> But why did they make an algorithm that
(00:47:05)
will preferentially send that to my
(00:47:07)
child if my child shows any interest in
(00:47:09)
mental health? And why does she get
(00:47:11)
delused by it? And why do they have all
(00:47:13)
kinds of things to keep her on far
(00:47:14)
longer than she wants to keep on? This
(00:47:16)
is defective product design done to
(00:47:19)
addict children. They should be held
(00:47:21)
responsible. has nothing to do with left
(00:47:24)
or right, nothing to do with censorship.
(00:47:26)
So I think we all focus on design. Then
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all of us liberal, conservative,
(00:47:30)
libertarian can say you're making a
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dangerous product. You should be sued to
(00:47:35)
oblivion.
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[applause]
(00:47:44)
So you're a social scientist and so I
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know I mean I can imagine having written
(00:47:48)
this book you were there's going to be
(00:47:50)
some some critics out there right and so
(00:47:53)
um you know I think the kind of general
(00:47:54)
objection is okay so there were the
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there's sort of social pathologies and
(00:47:58)
things that seem to follow this
(00:47:59)
technology but that's that's correlation
(00:48:01)
you know how do we prove causation and
(00:48:02)
of course people that say that that know
(00:48:05)
anything about this should realize we're
(00:48:07)
not going to have uh randomized control
(00:48:09)
trials right we're not okay we're gonna
(00:48:10)
expose these kids to 20 hours a day of
(00:48:12)
of the internet and we're going to
(00:48:14)
isolate these. But how do you respond to
(00:48:15)
think kind of general objection?
(00:48:17)
>> I'm so glad you asked that because this
(00:48:18)
is this is really important especially
(00:48:19)
for legislation and litigation.
(00:48:21)
>> So the basic argument against me is that
(00:48:23)
I don't know the difference between
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correlation and causation. I show graphs
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in chapter one that this happened and
(00:48:29)
guess what else happened at this point?
(00:48:31)
Social media was introduced. If that's
(00:48:32)
all I had, I would be guilty as charged.
(00:48:35)
We cannot prove what caused an
(00:48:37)
historical trend, especially in the
(00:48:38)
social sciences. Fine. Now, let's look
(00:48:41)
at it from a product safety point of
(00:48:43)
view. The question on parents mind isn't
(00:48:45)
what happened in 2012. It's is this
(00:48:47)
product safe for my child? And is there
(00:48:48)
evidence of safety or harm? Let's go
(00:48:51)
through it. Um, is there evidence of
(00:48:53)
harm? Well, let's ask the people who use
(00:48:55)
it. The kids say it's harming them. Is
(00:48:57)
that evidence? I think so. Let's ask the
(00:48:59)
people who saw the harm happen. The
(00:49:00)
parents and teachers, they say it's
(00:49:02)
harming kids. Is that evidence? I think
(00:49:04)
so. Let's take the companies at their
(00:49:06)
word. We have thousands and thousands of
(00:49:08)
pages of their internal reports and
(00:49:09)
studies. They know they're hurting kids.
(00:49:11)
They're trying to addict them. They say
(00:49:13)
that their products are causing all
(00:49:15)
kinds of of uh uh defects in personality
(00:49:18)
and mental health. So is a is a signed
(00:49:21)
confession from the companies about what
(00:49:22)
they're doing. Is that evidence of harm?
(00:49:24)
I think so. And now let's get to the
(00:49:26)
academic evidence. There are four lines
(00:49:28)
that we're debating about. All four
(00:49:30)
lines point to a a close association and
(00:49:33)
two of them are causal. One is the
(00:49:35)
correlational studies which are the
(00:49:37)
correlations are are large enough.
(00:49:38)
They're about as large as most other
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things in public health. So the
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correlations are there. It doesn't prove
(00:49:42)
causation.
(00:49:43)
>> So we do experiments. What do the
(00:49:44)
experiments show? When you get college
(00:49:46)
students to reduce their social media
(00:49:48)
use for at least a week, their levels of
(00:49:51)
depression go down. Those are randomized
(00:49:54)
control trials. We have a lot of them.
(00:49:56)
And almost all of them when you look at
(00:49:58)
depression and you look at more than a
(00:50:00)
week, they all show reductions. So it's
(00:50:02)
kind of case closed at this point. But
(00:50:04)
wait, there's also the longitudinal
(00:50:05)
studies that show the right precedence
(00:50:07)
of order and there are quasi experiments
(00:50:09)
that show that when highspeed internet
(00:50:11)
comes to a region of of Spain or Canada
(00:50:13)
or Germany, um, girls especially go into
(00:50:17)
psychiatric care more often in the
(00:50:19)
following years. So we have seven lines
(00:50:22)
of evidence. I I think I understand the
(00:50:25)
difference between correlation and
(00:50:26)
causation.
(00:50:27)
>> Absolutely. And absolutely any doctor
(00:50:29)
gives you an antibiotic, if you break
(00:50:30)
out in hides, well, you're not going to
(00:50:32)
do a randomized control trial. I'm going
(00:50:33)
to tell you to stop taking the
(00:50:34)
antibiotics. So, um, and the biohackers
(00:50:36)
of course talk about these N equal one
(00:50:38)
experiments and it's essentially that.
(00:50:40)
Well, um, why don't you just change your
(00:50:41)
your macros and see what it actually
(00:50:44)
does? And so, in principle, anyone
(00:50:46)
that's not deeply addicted as an adult
(00:50:47)
could test this for themselves.
(00:50:48)
>> That's right. And how often do you hear
(00:50:50)
a story or hear someone say, "Yeah, I
(00:50:52)
got off social media and boy did I get
(00:50:54)
depressed. I've never heard that."
(00:50:56)
[laughter]
(00:50:57)
>> So true. And so your your chapter eight
(00:51:00)
in the book which you talked a bit about
(00:51:01)
I s it was sort of surprised me when I
(00:51:03)
was reading it um because you yourself
(00:51:05)
you said look I'm not a religious person
(00:51:06)
and yet you have this chapter about the
(00:51:09)
existential and spiritual void uh that
(00:51:12)
people feel as it's not as if so what
(00:51:16)
you're not saying is well people have a
(00:51:18)
spiritual existential void they might
(00:51:19)
but so they turn to this but that the
(00:51:22)
participation itself or at least the
(00:51:23)
addictive is actually causing it.
(00:51:25)
>> Yeah. No that's I think that's right. Um
(00:51:28)
[clears throat]
(00:51:28)
so I've been active in the field of
(00:51:30)
positive psychology for a long time. Uh
(00:51:33)
my main work was on moral psychology,
(00:51:34)
moral development. But I got active in I
(00:51:36)
was interested in positive moral
(00:51:37)
emotions. So I thought a lot about
(00:51:39)
flourishing. What are the conditions of
(00:51:40)
flourishing and the formulation I came
(00:51:42)
to in the happiness hypothesis is
(00:51:43)
happiness comes from between doesn't
(00:51:46)
come from within you entirely. Doesn't
(00:51:47)
come from getting things in the world.
(00:51:48)
Comes from getting the right kind of
(00:51:50)
embeddedness or connectedness to uh uh
(00:51:53)
to to um uh to other people.
(00:51:57)
um to work or something productive and
(00:51:59)
to something larger than yourself.
(00:52:01)
That's my formulation in the book. It's
(00:52:03)
the right kind of between. And every one
(00:52:05)
of those three is decimated when kids
(00:52:07)
separate from each other and just
(00:52:09)
consume content. So yes, I believe this
(00:52:12)
is causing a spiritual vacuum, a
(00:52:14)
spiritual starvation. Um and it was when
(00:52:17)
I was almost done with the book and it
(00:52:19)
was all about kids and I was very
(00:52:20)
anchored on what's the evidence like.
(00:52:22)
So, so I I'm almost done and I realize,
(00:52:25)
wait, I've been too focused on just like
(00:52:26)
what I can prove. There's this giant
(00:52:28)
thing happening that I want to express
(00:52:30)
and I can't prove it. I don't have data
(00:52:32)
on spiritual fl. Well, there is some,
(00:52:34)
but
(00:52:35)
>> but I I so I I wrote that chapter and it
(00:52:38)
was like overdue and it was like past
(00:52:39)
deadline, but it was very important to
(00:52:41)
me to get that out and that's my
(00:52:42)
favorite chapter now. I I'm so glad that
(00:52:43)
I I did it and and I think I expressed
(00:52:46)
something that we're all feeling.
(00:52:47)
>> Yeah, absolutely. Let's talk a bit about
(00:52:50)
boys and I' I've looked into this
(00:52:51)
myself. So I God protected me from
(00:52:54)
gaming because I get motion sickness if
(00:52:56)
I play first-person perspective games
(00:52:58)
for more than about five minutes. But
(00:52:59)
not everyone is protected in that way.
(00:53:01)
And I know there's there's at least
(00:53:03)
people have an impression that there's
(00:53:04)
there's some redeeming value in certain
(00:53:06)
kind of games. And so I know uh young
(00:53:08)
men that play, you know, say World of
(00:53:10)
Warcraft or Halo and there is a social
(00:53:13)
aspect to it in which you can be you can
(00:53:15)
be playing with friends that are in
(00:53:16)
other parts of the country, right? And
(00:53:18)
there's a kind of camaraderie and
(00:53:20)
there's I think an an experience of
(00:53:23)
heroism and of bravery that they have in
(00:53:26)
this way together which is a a
(00:53:28)
legitimately bonding experience. Now
(00:53:30)
it's a it's a faximile but um do you
(00:53:33)
think there's something redemptive there
(00:53:34)
or what do you think is going on because
(00:53:36)
that's a different thing than say
(00:53:37)
Instagram?
(00:53:38)
>> You're right. It is different when we
(00:53:39)
let's let's talk let's focus on kids
(00:53:41)
let's say 10 to 14 year old boys. Um,
(00:53:46)
and so we could not say that this is
(00:53:48)
harming boys the same way that social
(00:53:50)
media is harming girls. It is different.
(00:53:51)
There are some ev there's some evidence
(00:53:52)
of some benefits on cognitive abilities.
(00:53:55)
Certainly, they're social.
(00:53:56)
>> Games are very, very varied. Some of
(00:53:58)
these quest games that are cooperative.
(00:54:00)
So, I I can't slam video games as much
(00:54:02)
as I can slam social media.
(00:54:04)
>> But here's the thing that we're
(00:54:05)
learning.
(00:54:06)
>> We older people, we think of video games
(00:54:08)
as a game that you start and then you
(00:54:11)
play it and then it's over. And when we
(00:54:13)
look at that, there are some problems
(00:54:14)
with them. Some of them are addictive.
(00:54:16)
You know, the violence, it turns out, is
(00:54:18)
I mean, it's not that it's good, but
(00:54:19)
it's it's it's the key thing isn't that
(00:54:21)
they're shooting people. So, so we got
(00:54:23)
kind of confused focused on the question
(00:54:25)
of the shooting. Is that the problem?
(00:54:28)
>> But here's what we're learning. Video
(00:54:29)
games aren't like that anymore.
(00:54:31)
>> They're not a consumer product that you
(00:54:33)
buy and own. It's software as a service.
(00:54:36)
And so, it's just like social media. So,
(00:54:38)
if your kid, raise your hand if your
(00:54:39)
kids's on Roblox. Raise your hand if you
(00:54:40)
know that your child uses Roblox. Okay,
(00:54:42)
not a lot of you. That's good. Um
(00:54:45)
because Roblox is not a video game.
(00:54:47)
Roblox is a virtual world environment
(00:54:49)
where strangers, mostly men from around
(00:54:52)
the world, can create whatever kind of
(00:54:54)
game they want and your kids wander
(00:54:56)
around and they can engage with whatever
(00:54:58)
they want. Um we did a deep dive on
(00:55:00)
this. We show there's games like Sex
(00:55:02)
with the Teacher in which you watch a
(00:55:03)
teacher having sex or you can have sex
(00:55:04)
with your teacher in this game. You can
(00:55:06)
be seven and you're having sex with a
(00:55:07)
teacher with Roblox characters. Um
(00:55:10)
there's um there are strip clubs. Uh
(00:55:13)
again, Roblox characters, but you're
(00:55:14)
stripping and simulating sex. Um two
(00:55:16)
days after Charlie Kirk was
(00:55:18)
assassinated, Roblox took down I think
(00:55:19)
more than a hundred Charlie Kirk shooter
(00:55:21)
games.
(00:55:22)
>> So it's a sick sick environment. It's
(00:55:24)
not a video game
(00:55:26)
>> and and this is just like, well, what
(00:55:27)
are you going to do? You know, we had
(00:55:29)
previous moral panics. Let's just adapt
(00:55:30)
to this. Yeah. By shutting it down for
(00:55:32)
children.
(00:55:34)
>> That's a super depressing thing to end
(00:55:36)
on. So, I got to ask you um [applause]
(00:55:39)
I mean, are you optimistic? And if so,
(00:55:42)
why are you optimistic?
(00:55:43)
>> Yeah. No, I am wildly optimistic because
(00:55:45)
who would ever have thought that we
(00:55:48)
could have 38 states passing
(00:55:50)
legislation, 19 of them doing it
(00:55:51)
correctly in a year.
(00:55:53)
>> And so, the 19 that blew it, they're
(00:55:55)
going to correct it. And you guys are
(00:55:56)
going to push them to do that. Um and uh
(00:55:58)
you know, I've had meetings with in
(00:56:00)
Congress. There's a lot of support for
(00:56:01)
this on both sides. So I think you know
(00:56:04)
especially if we if we you work with
(00:56:05)
libertarians to work out certain
(00:56:07)
objections it's all systems go we all
(00:56:09)
have children we all see the damage we
(00:56:11)
all need to protect children and the
(00:56:13)
amazing thing is we can do it and this
(00:56:15)
is part of look this is part of what
(00:56:16)
Toko said about America that in you know
(00:56:19)
he said in in France when there's a
(00:56:21)
problem you need a bridge built wait for
(00:56:23)
the king to do it in England when
(00:56:25)
there's a problem you wait for the
(00:56:26)
nobles to do it but in America he
(00:56:29)
traveled around in the 1830s in America
(00:56:31)
they get together. They have parents,
(00:56:33)
you know, they have a group. They they
(00:56:35)
collection. They come up with papers and
(00:56:36)
they do it. This is what Americans do.
(00:56:38)
And this is what we're seeing all around
(00:56:40)
the country. So, I am actually wildly
(00:56:42)
optimistic.
(00:56:42)
>> Wonderful. Jonathan Height, everyone.
(00:56:44)
Thanks. Thank you. [applause]
(00:56:52)
[applause]
(00:56:58)
>> [applause]
(00:57:00)
>> Well, we're now have a a discussion. So,
(00:57:02)
this event is officially co-sponsored by
(00:57:04)
two centers. I'm the director of the
(00:57:05)
Devos Center for Human Flourishing uh
(00:57:08)
but also uh sponsored by the Center on
(00:57:10)
Technology and the Human Person. And I
(00:57:12)
would now like to invite uh my colleague
(00:57:14)
Wes Hodgeges who is the director of the
(00:57:17)
technology center uh to come introduce
(00:57:19)
his panelists. Wes.
(00:57:23)
>> [applause]
(00:57:30)
>> Thank you very much, Jay. It's very good
(00:57:31)
to see you all and be here. Um, I am
(00:57:34)
delighted to be introducing this
(00:57:35)
accomplished panel. But the first thing
(00:57:37)
I want to say is just a tremendous thank
(00:57:39)
you to to Michael Marinasio, one of our
(00:57:41)
panelists, um, who is executive director
(00:57:43)
of the Center for Responsible
(00:57:45)
Technology, who we wouldn't have this
(00:57:46)
event without them. They've been a
(00:57:48)
sponsor, a a partner for this the whole
(00:57:50)
way through. So, thank you very much,
(00:57:51)
MICHAEL.
(00:57:54)
>> [applause]
(00:57:57)
>> SO I AM GOING TO KICK US off by uh
(00:58:00)
sharing some bios for our panelists but
(00:58:02)
in the meantime I would love it if you
(00:58:03)
guys would take the stage so we can
(00:58:05)
transition quickly get to these
(00:58:06)
questions and have a excellent
(00:58:08)
conversation following those remarks. So
(00:58:11)
delighted to uh present this
(00:58:13)
accomplished medical um accomplished
(00:58:15)
panel of medical and policy
(00:58:16)
professionals to discuss the harms and
(00:58:18)
deliberate on solutions in this
(00:58:20)
civilizational challenge to save our
(00:58:22)
kids from addiction and tech generated
(00:58:25)
chronic disease. Uh the first person I'm
(00:58:28)
delighted to be introducing is Dr.
(00:58:30)
Victoria Dunley. Uh Dr. Dr. Dunley is an
(00:58:33)
integrative child psychiatrist and
(00:58:35)
author of Reset Your Child's Brain, a
(00:58:38)
groundbreaking book on the neurological
(00:58:40)
and behavioral impacts of screen time on
(00:58:42)
children. She has treated hundreds of
(00:58:45)
youth with conditions such as ADHD,
(00:58:48)
anxiety, and depression through her
(00:58:49)
signature electronic fast protocol. Her
(00:58:52)
clinical work and advocacy have made her
(00:58:54)
a national voice on how digital overuse
(00:58:57)
contributes to child mental health to
(00:58:59)
the child mental health crisis.
(00:59:01)
Victoria, thank you so much for being
(00:59:03)
here. Uh, next I'm delighted to
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introduce Jennifer Galardi. Jennifer is
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a senior policy analyst for Restoring
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American Wellness here at the Heritage
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Foundation's Devos Center. She has
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decades of experience in fitness and
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nutrition, uh, working for some of the
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most prominent brands to represent
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health and wellness initiatives
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including Nike, Microsoft, Coca-Cola,
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and Comcast. Jennifer, delighted that
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you're on stage with us. And next, I
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mentioned Michael. Michael serves as
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executive director of the center for
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responsible technology. With nearly 15
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years in federal politics and two
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decades as a technologist, he leads
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efforts to promote sensible policy,
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disrupt screen overuse culture, and
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advocate for human- centered technology
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that supports real world experiences and
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child development. Thank you again for
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being here. Next, and finally, I'd like
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to introduce my colleague, Annie
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Chestnut Tutor, who is a policy analyst
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in our center for technology and the
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human person. She focuses on federal and
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state policy to protect children online,
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strengthen parental rights, and counter
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big tech's influence. Annie's research
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and advocacy equip policymakers with
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practical solutions to restore digital
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boundaries and serve family that serve
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families and communities. Annie, thank
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you for being here. Now, let's get to
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the questions.
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All right, Dr. Dunley, you are up first.
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Um, doctor, you are a physician who
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specializes in this field. Uh, can you
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help us see this issue through your eyes
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for a moment? What has your clinical
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practice taught you about the
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relationship between screen time and
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anxiety, depression, or sleep problems
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in children?
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So what I'm seeing and what I've you
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know I've been doing this for 20 years
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now focused on the impact of screen time
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on mental health um is that first of all
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the acuity is super high now it's very
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hard to get kids better unless and until
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the screen aspect is addressed. Um, so
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clinically what I see is that even
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though kids are presenting differently,
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like some may have attention issues,
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some may have ticks, they might be
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coming in depressed, a lot of kids come
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in with um mood swings and aggression.
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Whatever the issue is, the underlying
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problem is that they're in a state of
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chronic hyperarousal. So in this kind of
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like heightened state of arousal all the
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time. So they're um they're like revved
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up but exhausted. They're wired and
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tired. Um so that depending on their
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constitution and how old they are, you
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know, it presents different ways. So
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it's confusing. So kids are getting
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misdiagnosed. Um they're being put on
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medication inappropriately. Even if they
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need medication, they're being put on,
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you know, higher doses or multiple
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medications that don't work. Um and then
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this spills into other areas like
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school. They're struggling in school. Um
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and then the interventions at school
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don't work. They're very disruptive in
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the classroom. So then other kids are
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paying the price. So it all comes down
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to screens either directly or
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indirectly.
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>> I feel like revved up and tired is
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something that I can relate to as well
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and probably most of us. Um would now my
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next question is would you be able to
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tell uh just from examining a child if
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they suffer from electronic screen
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syndrome? Um you know what happens to
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these addicted kids physiologically?
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>> Um well I can almost always tell tell
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only because it's universal. like I it's
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kind of the default I assume that it's
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happening if um if they have any screen
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time at all. Um and by the way, a lot of
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these problems happen even if the child
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is using screens, you know, well below
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the recommended limits of one to two
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hours a day, some kids, even if they're
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using just once a week or twice a week,
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um they still have these issues and we
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know that it's affecting them because
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when we take all the screens away, they
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get better. Um so I I'm sorry, I forgot
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the original question. Oh, you um the
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question is can you can you can you
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tell?
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>> So a lot of time like I mentioned the um
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the presentation varies um but a lot of
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times the description from the parent is
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that the child's uh um irritable and
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they can't focus. They're not motivated.
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They're defiant. They have trouble
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getting things done. So they're in this
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like defensive state because they're
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operating from a more primitive part of
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the brain. So when you're in that
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survival state, which is occurring
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because you're being assaulted by screen
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stimulation all the time, you it's hard
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to think ahead. It's hard to focus. It's
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hard to think of another person besides
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yourself. So um and we we know this from
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the research too is that empathy is
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being um you can't be empathic when
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you're in that defensive state. And we
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know that you know all the way from
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little kids to young adults now the
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empathy scores are dropping. So all of
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these all of these characteristics
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whether it's executive functioning, mood
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regulation or um empathy, creativity,
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all of those things have to do with the
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frontal lobe and that's what gets shut
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down when you're overstimulated.
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>> You know, I find that I am I struggle
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with truthfulness when I visit the
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dentist. Do you find that your patients,
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parents, uh children, are they being
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honest with you about their addiction?
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>> Goodness, no. I mean,
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>> are they honest with themselves? I think
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I always tell parents too like lying is
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a red flag to me because it's it it's a
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sign that the child is living in an
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environment where they think the parent
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doesn't know what they're doing. So
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whether and and I sometimes I see that
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when they don't even they're not even
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playing video games that much. But just
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the fact that they're existing in a
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space where their parent doesn't know
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what they're doing, it tempts them to
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lie and then they start lying in other
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ways too. But I think um you know most
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kids I'm assuming they're they're going
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to start arguing with me that it's not
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the problem. So we really work more with
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the parents.
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>> Understood. Thank you. Uh Jennifer, my
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next question is for you. So the Maha
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movement emphasizes root cause health
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and holistic well-being. How does
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excessive screen time undermine these
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goals?
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>> Um yes. So thank you for the question. I
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think one of the biggest things uh
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Secretary Kennedy has brought to
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awareness with the MAHA movement is this
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shift from looking at the body as a
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certain part to treat like a heart or a
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brain or the gut and this holistic idea
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of health and wellness and what it means
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to be healthy and well in our society.
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Um and really what it means to be human.
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There is a lot of that language within
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the Maha movement which is why it is so
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powerful and bipartisan is because it's
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touching all of us on a very human
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holistic level. Um he everything kind of
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affects the body, the mind and as we
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heard um throughout kind of the two
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conversations previously the soul and so
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the tech affects all of these things as
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well. So it fits so nicely and it is
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even though it's it's not really pointed
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out many times within the MA report. Um
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there is I believe um one line on screen
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time that suggests the surgeon general
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will launch an education and awareness
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awareness initiative on the effect of
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screens on children and the actions
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being taken by states to limit screen
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times at school. So that's the specific
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policy direction in the second MA
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report. However, they do outline the
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four biggest drivers of chronic health
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conditions. One, poor diet. Um, and we
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can we can argue that tech affects that
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because we're kind of just in this
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mindless numbing of of everything, of
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eating, of of the screens. Like, we're
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on our screens and we're eating and
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nobody's we're not really mindful of
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anything we're doing. So, it does affect
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diet. Uh, two, chemical exposure.
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Some people will go down the path of the
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5G radiation. So well that's a that's a
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deep hole that people will go into and
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we'll kind of gloss over that because
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that's not really the issue of of
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today's conversation. But three over med
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overmedicalization and this really gets
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into maybe more um young adults than
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children. But this overmedicalization
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for young adults particularly women
(01:07:13)
there's now these websites called hers
(01:07:15)
and hymns where all you have to do
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you're self diagnosing. I'm I went on a
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like test case of one. I went on this
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hers website and it took me less than 15
(01:07:26)
minutes to diagnose to tell this website
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I'm anxious. I'm depressed. Um you know,
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of course we all get anxious and
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depressed from time to time, but now I
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have an appointment with the doctor that
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I can go online and they'll be like,
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"Here are your SSRIs. Here is your You
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know, it it's insane how easily we are
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prescribing drugs to young adults and
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particularly young women when they're in
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the middle of forming what could
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possibly be the most important
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relationships with of their life, which
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is with men and for marriage and family.
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And we're disrupting everything about
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that. And then four, the lack, this is
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the obvious one, lack of activity and
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chronic stress. Just the fact that we're
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saying children have chronic stress. I
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mean, the thing that stressed me out the
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most when I was a child is, you know,
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did I get to my playd date on time? I I
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mean, chronic stress for somebody under
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the age of 18 is just an insane idea.
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And this is what tech is doing. So, I
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think even though it's not specifically
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in the report, it touches on every
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single issue of chronic disease and
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that's why it's so impactful. I think
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maybe we could do a better job a little
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bit in the maha movement of focusing on
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this and that will be something I would
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like to do um as part of this movement
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and make sure it is at the forefront
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right up there with glyphosate right up
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there with the food supply and the food
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pyramid and the food guidelines. So I do
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think this is this is a crucial part of
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the movement and secondly because of the
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moms. I mean, that's really what we've
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seen the Maha be so the Maha movement be
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so impactful is is the the force of a
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mother's love and protection for their
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children.
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>> So then maybe to summarize some of what
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you said. Yes. Go moms.
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We should clap more. We should clap more
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for the moms. Um so maybe to summarize
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what you said there, are you um are you
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making the case that um a great deal or
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almost all of the Mahal reports are
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either directly or indirectly stemming
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from uh screen exposure in children?
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>> I don't know if they're stemming from,
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but I think they're intertwined with and
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if we I think we could maybe do a better
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job with messaging. However, hopefully
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and I I do believe Casey Means will be
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confirmed on Thursday. there is not
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going to be a more powerful messenger
(01:09:49)
than a new mother on this issue and that
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you know maybe they wrote that line with
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her in mind that this would be one of
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the issues that the surgeon general
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takes up and we know that the surgeon
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general really doesn't have much policy
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authority. They are kind of the speaking
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messenger of HHS and she can be a very
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powerful tool um in this fight against
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of the of big tech.
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>> Absolutely. My my son is two and a half
(01:10:16)
years old. I should have put in the
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calendar the day he was able to use my
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phone. Two and a half. And he must have
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been in his first year life. Um,
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wonderful. Well, thank you so much,
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Jennifer. Dr. Dunley, I've got another
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question for you. So, in in your
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clinical experience, how does recovery
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look like for children um who undergo
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digital detox? Um, how quickly do health
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and behavior outcomes change and how
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frequent is there a relapse?
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So, it's actually pretty fast and we do,
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you know, we do some preparing, but we
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go cold turkey. I've just learned over
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the years that a lot of times parents
(01:10:50)
want to go slowly and it just doesn't
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work. Um, so we go cold turkey and with
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younger kids really within a couple of
(01:10:57)
days, you start to see a difference in
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their mood and their behavior. Um but
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even for teenagers within a week or into
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the second week um unless someone's
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really really addicted then it may take
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be more weeks but really by the second
(01:11:10)
week almost everybody will start to
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improve and you see better eye contact.
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They're smiling more. Their mood's
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better. Kids will come out of their room
(01:11:16)
more. They're more relaxed. They're
(01:11:17)
nicer to their siblings. They start
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reading more. Um so all these things
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across the board their grades can go up
(01:11:23)
pretty dramatically and their their
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reading levels can go up within a you
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know couple months. It's very dramatic
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and it improves a lot of things in a lot
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of different areas. But if you think
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about um like what the screens are doing
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in terms of like desynchronizing the
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body clock um desensitizing the dopamine
(01:11:40)
pathways
(01:11:41)
um increasing the stress hormones like
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and it it changes blood flow in the
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brain and like excitability it changes
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serotonin levels everything. So when all
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of that stuff normalizes
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um you see pretty dramatic changes.
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>> Wonderful. Well, I think that should
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give us some hope.
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>> Yes.
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>> Oh, wait. Sorry. Um, and then in terms
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of relapse, you know, of course, some
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people will keep um like abstaining
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longer term, especially if their child
(01:12:08)
has a lot of uh risk factors. Other
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people try to re reintroduce too soon
(01:12:13)
and then they kind of backslide and
(01:12:15)
then, you know, we come back to the
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table and sometimes do another fast or
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sometimes um just cut back again. But my
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rule of thumb is generally like whatever
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they're doing in that currently, they
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need to be doing like 10% of what
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they're doing currently. That's kind of
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like a rule of thumb that I've realized
(01:12:31)
over time.
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>> Thank you. Uh Jennifer, back to you. Um
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my question is, how has the use of
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social media affected childhood
(01:12:40)
wellness?
(01:12:41)
>> Oh jeez.
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>> As we've seen in the previous
(01:12:43)
presentation,
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>> how hasn't it? Um well, like Dr. Height
(01:12:47)
said, he talked about the rewiring of
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the brain. I like to think of it as well
(01:12:52)
as a rewiring of the culture in so many
(01:12:55)
ways. There was a wonderful op-ed in the
(01:12:57)
Washington Post by Governor Spencer Cox
(01:13:00)
um what he called the consequences of
(01:13:02)
America's moral drift that consumerism
(01:13:05)
and as we've so aptly worded it the
(01:13:07)
addiction economy because it is an
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addiction just like alcohol um like you
(01:13:12)
said what's the first the first step has
(01:13:14)
to be acknowledging you have the problem
(01:13:16)
right you will you will people will go
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in there and lie about their phone usage
(01:13:20)
I think I see myself like I don't even
(01:13:21)
want to look at my screen time because I
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don't want to be confronted with the
(01:13:24)
reality of what I've done during the
(01:13:26)
day. Um, but consumerism and the
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addiction economy are undermining the
(01:13:30)
republic and and I don't think that's a
(01:13:32)
scare tactic. I don't think that's a
(01:13:35)
moral panic. I think that's true. Um, it
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it's I think we've lost as a culture
(01:13:41)
things of the spirit and this speaks to
(01:13:43)
the soul part of it. Um, that the things
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that once defined our our culture and
(01:13:48)
father Josiah Trenum Trenum has recently
(01:13:51)
said and again it sounds like an
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exaggeration. I don't think it is
(01:13:54)
grotesque enslavements to the passions
(01:13:57)
which are stirred by internet content
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which is so seductive and so wicked.
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Truly the devils have us. I think that's
(01:14:05)
true. Um it's an upside down world as CS
(01:14:09)
Lewis called it. You know the kind of
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Kardashian plastics and makeup and
(01:14:13)
attire.
(01:14:15)
I
(01:14:17)
I'm hesitant to even say it because
(01:14:18)
we've probably seen it. But even the
(01:14:20)
fake kind of like pubic hair that she
(01:14:23)
sells, it's disgusting. Like I can't
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even that's amplified on social media.
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The fake and the the plastic, those
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things are amplified and the realistic
(01:14:35)
things are depressed. Meaning, you know,
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you can now not call somebody obese
(01:14:41)
because that could hurt their feel. the
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actual real problems are depressed and
(01:14:47)
the fake and the fake is amplified um
(01:14:50)
and it and then we celebrate kind of
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obesity now you can't actually call it
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out the whole world is inverted on
(01:14:57)
social media and so it's inverting the
(01:14:59)
whole culture particularly with girls um
(01:15:03)
because I am a a young lady and not a
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young lady anymore but I know the
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difference of what you know when I was
(01:15:09)
younger and growing up it was just it
(01:15:12)
was um magazines of of beautiful women.
(01:15:15)
At least that was something to aspire to
(01:15:17)
and it was real. These were real women.
(01:15:19)
Now we've got fake women that young
(01:15:22)
girls are trying to aspire to that
(01:15:23)
they'll never obtain. Um and it's and
(01:15:27)
it's the the other article I read just
(01:15:29)
the last weekend in Wall Street Journal
(01:15:31)
was girl take your meds. It's the new
(01:15:33)
social status to be on SSRIs. It's
(01:15:36)
bizarre. I can't even I can't even I
(01:15:39)
don't need to see data. I'm sorry. I
(01:15:41)
apologize to all the clinicians around
(01:15:43)
here. I don't need to see data to know
(01:15:45)
that there's something wrong. And I
(01:15:46)
think some of us um you know need to be
(01:15:49)
those cultural forces. Moms, it's like I
(01:15:51)
don't need to see the data. I see what's
(01:15:52)
happening every day in my life. Um so
(01:15:55)
don't tell me that. Well, science, the
(01:15:58)
libertarians, well science, you know,
(01:15:59)
free speech I I get a little passionate
(01:16:02)
about what it's doing to our girls. Um
(01:16:05)
and uh you know the fact that it's now
(01:16:07)
cool to be on psych meds and the new
(01:16:10)
norm it's this whole rewiring of the
(01:16:13)
culture. Um and that this is why I think
(01:16:16)
people in the mahab movement have come
(01:16:18)
to understand Casey mean or Cali means
(01:16:21)
uh Casey's brother has said many times
(01:16:24)
it's a spiritual battle and I believe
(01:16:26)
that's what we're facing with tech like
(01:16:28)
father Josiah Trenum has said it's the
(01:16:30)
devils have us
(01:16:32)
>> and that seems to be a a core tenant of
(01:16:34)
the maha movement is the adherence to
(01:16:37)
truthfulness
(01:16:38)
um is in the face of you know the
(01:16:41)
experiences that you described being
(01:16:43)
able to say Yes, we can say something
(01:16:45)
about health.
(01:16:46)
>> Yeah. And what it means to be human.
(01:16:48)
Like this is not these kinds of
(01:16:50)
relationships. What I what I love about
(01:16:52)
being a part of this movement and I'm
(01:16:54)
seeing some of some friendly faces in
(01:16:56)
the in the audience is there are such
(01:16:58)
real connections. I feel that despite
(01:17:00)
what side of the political aisle we're
(01:17:02)
on, they it just feels very authentic.
(01:17:06)
I'm sure Jay can can uh speak to this as
(01:17:09)
well and agree with me and McKenzie. um
(01:17:12)
that whenever we're together, it's we're
(01:17:15)
doing ser what we believe to be serious
(01:17:18)
policy work, but it's a lot of fun and
(01:17:20)
it's just it's based on human connection
(01:17:23)
and and you know, this is why it brought
(01:17:26)
together people like me who are quasi
(01:17:30)
hippies from California and
(01:17:32)
homeschooling moms and it's it's because
(01:17:34)
it's about being human.
(01:17:36)
>> Yeah. And it takes a strong imagination
(01:17:38)
to view technology in today's age as
(01:17:40)
something that doesn't subvert that. Um
(01:17:44)
it's why we're here. So um Dr. Dunley,
(01:17:46)
one more question for you. Um what level
(01:17:49)
of daily screen use should public health
(01:17:52)
agencies recommend as a safe upper limit
(01:17:55)
for children? And is this an unhelpful
(01:17:58)
way to communicate restraint?
(01:18:00)
I I do find that that's unhelpful
(01:18:03)
because first of all I think it's
(01:18:05)
different for different kids. I mean
(01:18:06)
some kids like I mentioned really can't
(01:18:09)
tolerate any at all. I mean everybody
(01:18:12)
would do better growing up with zero. Um
(01:18:15)
but I think to me like the gold standard
(01:18:17)
is the way that I do it very
(01:18:19)
methodically is by you know having that
(01:18:21)
four-week fast and then seeing what the
(01:18:24)
child can tolerate and doing it very
(01:18:26)
slowly like 15 minutes on the weekend or
(01:18:28)
something like that. Um, and then you
(01:18:30)
can see, you know, some children will
(01:18:32)
decompensate right away and some takes
(01:18:34)
longer. But that's, you know, again, but
(01:18:37)
at that point we're like, well, why are
(01:18:38)
you using it at all, you know, I mean,
(01:18:40)
they're going to get exposure in school
(01:18:42)
no matter what. So, um, I feel like at
(01:18:45)
least the the older um guidelines of
(01:18:48)
less than one to two hours a day, at
(01:18:50)
least that was something you could point
(01:18:51)
to. Now the guidelines have just totally
(01:18:54)
devolved into, you know, oh well just
(01:18:57)
make sure you get enough sleep and
(01:18:58)
exercise and and there's really not much
(01:19:00)
guidance at all. Um so to me I always
(01:19:03)
just say to every family like you can do
(01:19:04)
your own experiment. Do this first, see
(01:19:06)
what changes you see. You don't have to
(01:19:07)
believe me. Do it yourself and then go
(01:19:09)
from there.
(01:19:11)
>> Thank you. That no that's very
(01:19:12)
instructive. Um um Jennifer, another
(01:19:15)
question. If you were designing a
(01:19:17)
federal wellness strategy, um, how would
(01:19:20)
screen time reduction be integrated
(01:19:22)
alongside the other pieces like
(01:19:24)
nutrition and exercise?
(01:19:27)
>> Jay, maybe we should put it in the food
(01:19:28)
guidelines. [laughter]
(01:19:30)
>> It really is. I Who mentioned it's we we
(01:19:33)
take it it's it's something we take in.
(01:19:35)
It's something that either nourishes us
(01:19:37)
or poisons us. So, um, I'm I am not the
(01:19:42)
clinical person. And I don't know the
(01:19:43)
technical, you know, how much time it
(01:19:45)
should be, but I do believe that maybe
(01:19:47)
it should be treated as we treat the
(01:19:49)
food guidelines of of something that
(01:19:50)
we're taking into our body that is that
(01:19:52)
is going to either nourish us
(01:19:55)
>> or or poison us.
(01:19:57)
>> And I I don't see any of it nourishing.
(01:19:59)
I think all of it is like junk food. So
(01:20:02)
there's is there a safe amount of junk
(01:20:04)
food? I mean, the best answer is that
(01:20:05)
you shouldn't have any junk food. But so
(01:20:07)
I to me like there's no like there's no
(01:20:10)
safe level. I would I would say that
(01:20:11)
with social media, but isn't China using
(01:20:14)
it as an ed their their version of Tik
(01:20:16)
Tok is is like National Geographic, you
(01:20:19)
know, it's it might be nourishing on
(01:20:21)
some level with restrictions of age
(01:20:23)
limits. Um, you know, I I do watch a lot
(01:20:26)
of spiritual conversation though. I'm an
(01:20:28)
adult, but I watch a lot of spiritual
(01:20:30)
conversations on YouTube. Maybe we can
(01:20:32)
feed that to our kids. Um, I don't know.
(01:20:35)
Again, I'm not the clinical person. for
(01:20:37)
for the most part I see mostly junk on
(01:20:39)
I'm not on Tik Tok so I can't say if
(01:20:42)
there's any usefulness for that but I I
(01:20:44)
do think we need to to look at you know
(01:20:47)
that's where I would look at the data
(01:20:48)
I'm not that's not me but um but I would
(01:20:52)
say we should consider it as food as
(01:20:54)
nourishment
(01:20:56)
>> or not
(01:20:56)
>> exposure
(01:20:57)
>> or not as an exposure
(01:20:58)
>> I mean it is true that China by their
(01:21:01)
actions they recognize what's at risk
(01:21:03)
and in their technological products and
(01:21:05)
what's being put in front of their
(01:21:06)
children. They do a massive amount of
(01:21:08)
control on that. You know, we we do not
(01:21:11)
view the human person the same way as
(01:21:12)
the Chinese Communist Party does and we
(01:21:14)
shouldn't. Um but they recognize the
(01:21:16)
threat and we should too. Um all right,
(01:21:19)
Dr. Dunley, one more question and then
(01:21:21)
I'm going to throw some questions to our
(01:21:23)
other to our to the rest of the panel.
(01:21:25)
Um Dr. Dunley, uh let's talk about junk
(01:21:28)
food. Um you have covered how uh the
(01:21:32)
psychological effects of screen abuse
(01:21:34)
are uh some they're independent of what
(01:21:36)
kids are actually consuming just the
(01:21:38)
number of hours as opposed to what's in
(01:21:39)
front of them. But let's talk about what
(01:21:41)
is in front of them. I'm curious how
(01:21:43)
frequent are your patients suffering
(01:21:45)
from exposure uh to porn at an early age
(01:21:48)
or dependence on AI products like chat
(01:21:52)
bots for their social and emotional
(01:21:54)
well-being and what conclusions do you
(01:21:56)
draw about these conditions?
(01:21:59)
Um I think you know in my experience and
(01:22:03)
I'm sure you know you guys agree as well
(01:22:05)
from ScreenStrong. Um the kids are
(01:22:08)
getting exposed younger and younger. Um
(01:22:11)
people often throw out that number that
(01:22:13)
you know by the time children are 12
(01:22:15)
like one and three has already been
(01:22:16)
exposed to porn. But every time I give a
(01:22:18)
talk somebody raises their hand at the
(01:22:20)
during the Q&A someone says my
(01:22:22)
six-year-old just got exposed in the
(01:22:23)
classroom. This just happened at my
(01:22:25)
son's school and um happened it was with
(01:22:28)
first and second graders and we have a
(01:22:30)
phone free school by the way. It still
(01:22:32)
happened in the afterchool program. Um
(01:22:35)
so it's just it's extremely common. Um
(01:22:40)
and and then what I'm seeing with the
(01:22:42)
young men um is that the the porn
(01:22:46)
addiction is is so prevalent it's
(01:22:48)
unbelievable. And so like we spend a lot
(01:22:51)
of time trying to unwind that whole
(01:22:53)
thing and that you know takes a lot of
(01:22:54)
people involved, a lot of resources just
(01:22:56)
to turn that around. Um so I think it's
(01:22:59)
extremely common and I think it's next
(01:23:01)
level like the the um addiction piece of
(01:23:04)
the porn like the constant stimulation
(01:23:06)
and how it's really hijacking all of the
(01:23:10)
u sexual drives and instinctual things
(01:23:12)
is um it's really like heroin. So I
(01:23:15)
think being able to have conversations
(01:23:17)
with parents about like how addictive it
(01:23:19)
is and how it changes the brain it does
(01:23:22)
interestingly the porn the effects the
(01:23:24)
imaging studies looking at porn video
(01:23:27)
games and social media it all looks very
(01:23:29)
similar. So there's the brains are less
(01:23:32)
connected and there's atrophy um of the
(01:23:35)
gray matter and it's and all three are
(01:23:38)
you know all associated with changes in
(01:23:41)
um depression and anxiety and lower
(01:23:44)
relational abilities.
(01:23:47)
>> And if we can't unite to be against
(01:23:49)
porn, what are we what are we doing
(01:23:50)
here? Um um do you have any comments on
(01:23:55)
anything you've seen in your clinical
(01:23:57)
practice regarding AI use and
(01:23:59)
dependency?
(01:24:00)
>> Um I I think maybe because I have you
(01:24:03)
know by the time they get to me they're
(01:24:04)
they have somebody or and also probably
(01:24:06)
have a therapist too but um I'm not
(01:24:08)
seeing as many kids personally that are
(01:24:10)
using like the chat bots. What I'm
(01:24:12)
seeing more is the cheating in school
(01:24:14)
and just using AI. um you know kids are
(01:24:18)
exhausted and then they they go to AI to
(01:24:21)
solve all their problems. That's what
(01:24:22)
I'm seeing is like this dependency on it
(01:24:25)
from that way and they can't even they
(01:24:27)
know it they don't want to be doing it
(01:24:28)
they still
(01:24:29)
>> they're tired so they just use it you
(01:24:31)
know.
(01:24:32)
>> Yeah. I would draw the audience's
(01:24:34)
attention to uh the case of Adam uh
(01:24:37)
Reigns who started by using an AI
(01:24:40)
product for homework and it ended up uh
(01:24:44)
encouraging enabling uh
(01:24:48)
his uh his suicide. So, um, read it. Uh,
(01:24:53)
let's go to the rest of our panel. Uh,
(01:24:55)
Michael, uh, Annie, you've been very
(01:24:56)
patient with me. Michael, um, as our,
(01:25:00)
uh, you know, token technologist on on
(01:25:03)
the panel, what do you see as the most
(01:25:05)
alarming or urgent harms that the public
(01:25:08)
underestimates here?
(01:25:10)
>> Thanks, Wes. Dr. used a word citizenship
(01:25:15)
and citizenship is really at the core uh
(01:25:18)
of what we talk about at the center for
(01:25:19)
responsible technology. We consider
(01:25:22)
these harms to be a national security
(01:25:24)
threat. What do I mean like that? I'm
(01:25:26)
going to draw some lines. Uh due to the
(01:25:28)
growing amounts of screen time following
(01:25:30)
the great rewiring that you saw just saw
(01:25:31)
with Dr. Height, uh kids are not
(01:25:33)
exercising, they're not socializing,
(01:25:35)
they're not sleeping, they're not
(01:25:37)
reading, right? Uh this is a recipe for
(01:25:40)
a national disaster. Let me give you my
(01:25:43)
math. So, anxious, lonely, addicted,
(01:25:46)
exhausted kids turn into anxious,
(01:25:48)
lonely, addicted, exhausted adults. Uh,
(01:25:51)
these adults are, by the way, they're
(01:25:53)
not dating. They're not forming families
(01:25:56)
and procreating. Uh, everything is going
(01:25:59)
south. And so, these are these are our
(01:26:01)
future citizens, right? These are the
(01:26:03)
people that are going to have to make
(01:26:04)
the hard decisions when the rest of us
(01:26:07)
die out. And so, this impacts GDP. This
(01:26:10)
impacts our military prowess,
(01:26:13)
international competitiveness,
(01:26:15)
innovation, you name it. All of these
(01:26:17)
things rely on inventors and doctors and
(01:26:20)
legislators and people that have been
(01:26:22)
shaped by real world learning. And so,
(01:26:26)
you know, a lot of this discourse comes
(01:26:28)
back to, oh, we got to beat China,
(01:26:30)
right? The nation's report card just
(01:26:32)
came out last week or two weeks ago,
(01:26:34)
lowest scores in the history of
(01:26:36)
measurement, right? And so my question
(01:26:38)
for for everybody is, you know, what's
(01:26:41)
the point of winning a race if you have
(01:26:42)
nobody to hand the baton to at the end
(01:26:44)
of the day. And so from my view, uh,
(01:26:47)
we've got to take this real world, real
(01:26:49)
people learning seriously, otherwise
(01:26:51)
we're going to kiss our great nation
(01:26:52)
goodbye. So I I I don't think the public
(01:26:55)
fully realizes how the magnitude of the
(01:26:57)
crisis.
(01:26:58)
>> Can I can I just jump in here really
(01:27:00)
quick? Bouncing off of that,
(01:27:03)
>> there are political ramifications to
(01:27:04)
this, too, as Dr. Hy point out. Um you
(01:27:07)
have a a a generation that feels that
(01:27:10)
their life is meaningless and when
(01:27:12)
people feel their life is meaningless
(01:27:14)
they are more likely to vote for a Zoron
(01:27:16)
Mandami that says we are going to give
(01:27:18)
your life meaning and that's how we have
(01:27:21)
you know they they're saying they're
(01:27:22)
pointing to a lot of it's because of
(01:27:24)
immigration that these people are voting
(01:27:26)
that way in New York but it's also a lot
(01:27:27)
of young people that feel despondent and
(01:27:30)
that their life doesn't have meaning.
(01:27:31)
Well, we're going to give you stuff and
(01:27:33)
maybe that'll give you life meaning. So,
(01:27:35)
I just want to kind of jump on that and
(01:27:36)
and say it has real world political
(01:27:38)
ramifications as well.
(01:27:39)
>> And I think when that meaning
(01:27:40)
disappears, they're lonely again,
(01:27:43)
>> right? Yeah. Well, you're you're not
(01:27:46)
going to find a conservative message
(01:27:47)
that says you will find yourself through
(01:27:49)
politics. Um,
(01:27:51)
wonderful. Thank you. Um, and Michael,
(01:27:54)
you know, are are you making the case
(01:27:55)
that, you know, my uh poorly spent years
(01:27:58)
in my 20s on video games didn't prepare
(01:28:00)
me uh for for the military or to, you
(01:28:04)
know, be an astronaut?
(01:28:05)
>> I was going to say they may have
(01:28:06)
prepared you to speak on this panel or
(01:28:07)
moderate the panel, but uh no, I mean, I
(01:28:11)
have the same background, played video
(01:28:13)
games for very many years, and uh you
(01:28:15)
know, I don't look back on it with
(01:28:17)
necessarily regret. There are much worse
(01:28:19)
things I could have done with my time,
(01:28:20)
but there are also tremendously better
(01:28:22)
things I could have done with my time.
(01:28:24)
Right.
(01:28:25)
>> No, I I can't echo that comment enough.
(01:28:27)
And I even told my team the other day
(01:28:28)
that I have more hours on Steam than all
(01:28:30)
of them combined, and it is a big regret
(01:28:32)
of mine. Um, all right. Well, uh,
(01:28:36)
speaking of which, Annie u, and question
(01:28:38)
uh for for both Annie and Michael is
(01:28:42)
which policy tools now now you described
(01:28:44)
it some. what which policy tools look
(01:28:46)
most promising to you for actually
(01:28:48)
curbing childhood screen addiction? And
(01:28:50)
Annie, let's start with you.
(01:28:51)
>> Yeah. Well, Dr. Height and fellow
(01:28:54)
panelists have made it clear that we are
(01:28:56)
in a crisis and parents need help. And
(01:29:01)
yes, we have a growing consensus
(01:29:04)
fortunately about delaying phones and um
(01:29:09)
delaying social media. But as like some
(01:29:12)
of the analogies that Dr. height shared.
(01:29:14)
We aren't just saying, "Hey, let's
(01:29:16)
gather together and let's collectively
(01:29:17)
decide we're going to delay giving our
(01:29:19)
kids alcohol or we're going to delay
(01:29:22)
letting them drive." Like, we need we
(01:29:23)
also do need laws and these companies do
(01:29:26)
need to be held accountable. And so, I
(01:29:28)
think um two there kind of two different
(01:29:32)
ways to go about it. I think one is
(01:29:34)
cutting off access and the other is um
(01:29:38)
changing the design systems and putting
(01:29:41)
restrictions on what sort of design
(01:29:44)
features can be allowed for uh services
(01:29:49)
platforms that kids can interface with.
(01:29:52)
Um, so there's a a growing um
(01:29:56)
consistence with age verification
(01:29:59)
um online because we we have that in the
(01:30:02)
real world, the you know physical world.
(01:30:04)
You know, kids can't um go into most
(01:30:07)
bars. Usually have to be 18 or 21 or
(01:30:10)
can't go into a strip club or um an
(01:30:13)
adult like video store. and but there's
(01:30:16)
been a loophole online and porn is at
(01:30:20)
their fingertips and now it's becoming
(01:30:22)
even more accessible. It's not just the
(01:30:25)
pornography websites, but on social
(01:30:28)
media, they've found creative ways to um
(01:30:32)
the like Only Fans and other adult
(01:30:35)
actors to um to start posting some
(01:30:41)
content on social media to entice users
(01:30:43)
to go to their external page. So to
(01:30:46)
date, 25 states have passed laws
(01:30:50)
requiring age verification for online
(01:30:52)
pornography websites. Uh we had a huge
(01:30:55)
win this summer when the Supreme Court
(01:30:57)
upheld Texas's age verification law and
(01:31:02)
um saying that it did not violate First
(01:31:05)
Amendment rights and that adults do not
(01:31:07)
have a First Amendment right to avoid
(01:31:10)
age verification.
(01:31:12)
Um so with this uh we have the pathway
(01:31:15)
to bring this nationwide because we need
(01:31:18)
it in all 50 states and ultimately need
(01:31:21)
a federal solution. Um and then with
(01:31:24)
design features the kids online safety
(01:31:26)
act that I think was mentioned earlier.
(01:31:29)
So that is putting limitations
(01:31:32)
um and telling social media platforms
(01:31:34)
that they cannot use addictive and
(01:31:37)
deceptive design features for accounts
(01:31:41)
for minors for kids. So um the these
(01:31:44)
types of features like the
(01:31:46)
recommendation based algorithms and the
(01:31:48)
endless feeds, the push notifications
(01:31:53)
um you know uh likes and those are all
(01:31:56)
like dopamine triggers.
(01:31:59)
for, you know, that quick pleasure.
(01:32:02)
And um again, like this bill, it's not
(01:32:04)
about what people are posting, but it's
(01:32:07)
about the algorithm, how it like it
(01:32:09)
praise on uh the user psychology and
(01:32:13)
feeds content based on their previous
(01:32:18)
browser history, views, likes to keep
(01:32:20)
them on the platform for as long as
(01:32:23)
possible. Um then we also have like app
(01:32:27)
store age verification um and the app
(01:32:31)
store accountability act and this is
(01:32:34)
requiring
(01:32:35)
um kids uh apps to require parental
(01:32:39)
consent for kids to download and so it
(01:32:41)
just like send a notification to the
(01:32:44)
parent saying you know okay your child
(01:32:46)
wants to in u download it's Instagram
(01:32:48)
yes or no and this is um I say a great
(01:32:52)
policy that is putting
(01:32:54)
parents more in the driver's seat and so
(01:32:56)
that they are actually having more of
(01:32:58)
like a technological means to have a say
(01:33:01)
in what their child's online experience
(01:33:04)
is because it can't otherwise if it's
(01:33:06)
just only about you know okay well don't
(01:33:09)
let them have a phone don't let them
(01:33:11)
have social media then it's it's kind of
(01:33:12)
like all or nothing and so when they are
(01:33:16)
actually on these platforms we there
(01:33:18)
needs to be ways for parents to say yes
(01:33:21)
or no and to have a say and the settings
(01:33:25)
for their child's account.
(01:33:28)
>> Thank you, Annie. And Michael, is there
(01:33:29)
any policy that you would point to is
(01:33:31)
something that you appreciate?
(01:33:32)
>> Yeah, I mean everything everything Annie
(01:33:34)
said. Uh app accountability act 100%
(01:33:37)
bell-to-bell bans in schools 100%. Uh I
(01:33:40)
would tack on a couple of, you know,
(01:33:43)
small ideas here. You know, Senator
(01:33:45)
Holly just came out with a bill
(01:33:46)
yesterday, uh heavily heavily
(01:33:48)
restricting attacking the use of chat
(01:33:50)
bots with minors. You know, I would say
(01:33:53)
that something really simple that we
(01:33:54)
could do tomorrow that I feel like
(01:33:57)
almost everybody would agree to would be
(01:33:59)
removing the first person perspective,
(01:34:01)
the I and the me from chat bots. Besides
(01:34:05)
providing marketing,
(01:34:09)
besides providing lost, besides
(01:34:12)
providing marketing attention and
(01:34:13)
getting people sucked in and lured and
(01:34:15)
addicted to these programs, it doesn't
(01:34:16)
actually have any benefit. Um, you
(01:34:19)
mentioned Adam Rain uh a couple of
(01:34:21)
minutes ago. Like the chatbot said he
(01:34:23)
was preparing his noose and it said,
(01:34:25)
"You're not invisible. I see you. You
(01:34:28)
know, you matter to me." Those are sick
(01:34:30)
and twisted things that should never be
(01:34:32)
said to a kid or to adult, right? And
(01:34:35)
so, you know, I would codify that in
(01:34:37)
state policy or federal policy tomorrow.
(01:34:40)
Uh, these companies wouldn't like it,
(01:34:41)
but it would be it would be very simple
(01:34:43)
and very effective. The other thing I
(01:34:45)
want to talk about is we have to find
(01:34:48)
more ways for parents to wholesale opt
(01:34:52)
out of these harms. Okay. So what do I
(01:34:55)
mean by that? Uh thank you Dr. Height
(01:34:57)
for the elevation of this issue. Parents
(01:34:59)
are waking up to social media. They're
(01:35:01)
waking up to smartphones particularly in
(01:35:03)
schools. Um but there's still a lot of
(01:35:05)
other areas they're struggling in.
(01:35:06)
Right? They're struggling in schools.
(01:35:07)
They're struggling to get edtech and
(01:35:10)
still screens out of schools. Uh they're
(01:35:12)
struggling to get them out of libraries,
(01:35:14)
restaurants. I mean, there's even
(01:35:15)
screens in gas stations now, right? It's
(01:35:17)
crazy. I can't even hear myself think at
(01:35:19)
a gas station when I'm pumping the gas.
(01:35:21)
And so, you know, I think sitting here
(01:35:24)
speaking at the Heritage Foundation,
(01:35:26)
we're speaking for my own organization.
(01:35:28)
I'm not saying that all of you guys need
(01:35:30)
to have screenfree uh childhoods and
(01:35:33)
education for all your kids, but this is
(01:35:35)
America. You should have the freedom
(01:35:37)
>> to achieve that if you want that for
(01:35:39)
your child, right? And so again, we need
(01:35:42)
to codify ways for parents to opt out
(01:35:45)
and say there has to be an alternative
(01:35:47)
path even if it's not the mainstream
(01:35:49)
one. Um, go ahead.
(01:35:52)
>> U, and I think a a lot of times schools
(01:35:54)
or districts have opt out options, but
(01:35:57)
they're not advertised
(01:35:59)
because Google or whoever you know is,
(01:36:01)
you know, gives them language to present
(01:36:03)
to the school so that everybody opts in
(01:36:05)
and no one's ever told they can opt out,
(01:36:08)
>> right? And the last The last piece I
(01:36:10)
would add is we have to find more
(01:36:13)
opportunities to bring these big tech
(01:36:15)
companies to court. Give parents more
(01:36:17)
options to litigate.
(01:36:20)
Great point. Great point. Now, something
(01:36:24)
I think what we've seen today so far
(01:36:25)
with this event is Dr. Height and so far
(01:36:28)
with this panel demonstrating the
(01:36:30)
grievous harm that's being done today.
(01:36:32)
And now from these last couple of
(01:36:34)
questions, I'm hearing these solutions,
(01:36:37)
which looking at the harm and looking at
(01:36:38)
the solutions, these seem like pretty
(01:36:40)
modest things that we're asking for.
(01:36:42)
That children shouldn't be exposed to
(01:36:44)
pornography, that uh they shouldn't be
(01:36:47)
exposed to uh virtual um algorithms that
(01:36:52)
are simulating relationship and
(01:36:53)
replacing the relationships in their
(01:36:55)
lives. Um, the list can go on and on,
(01:36:58)
but it seems like would your message be
(01:37:02)
to industry is saying
(01:37:05)
these are modest attempts, modest things
(01:37:07)
that we can do to to make that uh make
(01:37:11)
that possible for more families to make
(01:37:12)
it more possible for families to opt
(01:37:15)
out. Is that proper care
(01:37:16)
characterization of it?
(01:37:19)
I mean, I I would say that the problem
(01:37:22)
is the anthro uh anthropomorphization,
(01:37:25)
you know, the the personalization of the
(01:37:27)
chat bots itself. That's a feature.
(01:37:29)
That's not a bug, right?
(01:37:31)
>> And so, you're taking away their their
(01:37:33)
main way to convince people and lure
(01:37:35)
them into a sense of security into
(01:37:37)
relation, right? It's not relation at
(01:37:39)
all. Uh but take that away and it's
(01:37:43)
Google, right? I mean, it's a it's a
(01:37:45)
better Google. It's a faster Google.
(01:37:46)
I'll admit that. Um, but what's left
(01:37:49)
there? If it doesn't give the allure of
(01:37:51)
a relationship,
(01:37:53)
>> I think the marketing disappears.
(01:37:55)
>> Maybe the two cents is if you do not
(01:37:58)
like the modest measures, be afraid of
(01:37:59)
what comes next. Um, as we experience
(01:38:02)
more and more of these harms if there's
(01:38:04)
not correction, but I'm editorializing.
(01:38:06)
I'm I'm the moderator. Let's get back to
(01:38:07)
the questions. Um, so next question I
(01:38:11)
have is for for you, Annie. uh do the
(01:38:13)
harms we've discussed about social media
(01:38:15)
and screen use uh extend to AI? We've
(01:38:18)
covered some of that and but what are
(01:38:21)
some of the unique problems of AI that
(01:38:23)
contribute to problematic screen use?
(01:38:24)
Zone in on that more from from our
(01:38:26)
discussion here.
(01:38:28)
>> Yes, they do. Uh so first with social
(01:38:32)
media the algorithms the algorithm is so
(01:38:36)
powerful because it uses AI and that is
(01:38:40)
how it is very quickly recommending
(01:38:43)
um and curating content to each user
(01:38:46)
based on their likes and their
(01:38:49)
preferences and um their behavior on the
(01:38:53)
platform. So that that already has been
(01:38:55)
existing and that is what it keeps uh
(01:38:58)
users hooked. But I think where AI um
(01:39:03)
more like generative AI is different
(01:39:05)
with like the AI chat bots is the
(01:39:08)
engagement. It is engaging back with
(01:39:11)
you. It's not just very um
(01:39:14)
sophisticatedly serving you content.
(01:39:16)
It's um having like a relationship with
(01:39:19)
you and use the natural language
(01:39:23)
um responding, asking you more
(01:39:25)
questions.
(01:39:27)
And this is really concerning with kids
(01:39:30)
because I mean as their brains are still
(01:39:33)
developing and so even if they're told
(01:39:34)
it's a chatbot, I think um it's very
(01:39:38)
easy to forget that and for them to feel
(01:39:42)
like they are having they're they're
(01:39:43)
developing this emotional bond. um
(01:39:46)
especially as texting, direct messaging,
(01:39:50)
DMing is more how kids are communicating
(01:39:53)
anyway. So with most of their friends,
(01:39:54)
it's all chatting anyway. So it's really
(01:39:56)
no different than if they're chatting
(01:39:59)
with a chat chatbot. It's not like the
(01:40:02)
chatbot is where they type, but everyone
(01:40:03)
else they're on the phone.
(01:40:05)
Unfortunately, you know, they aren't
(01:40:07)
doing phone calls anymore. Um, so I
(01:40:09)
think it's it's the level of engagement
(01:40:13)
that AI
(01:40:15)
has and that how it's able to kind of
(01:40:18)
like replicate human type of engagement.
(01:40:22)
That is what is more concerning.
(01:40:25)
>> Thank you. And it's 2025, so I'm
(01:40:27)
obligated to ask several AI questions.
(01:40:29)
Thank you for your forbearance. One more
(01:40:30)
for you, Michael. Um, what are some of
(01:40:32)
the concerning or hopeful thoughts you
(01:40:34)
have about AI that you haven't already
(01:40:35)
covered?
(01:40:38)
I mean, so I agree with everything Annie
(01:40:41)
just said, but I'm going to try to take
(01:40:42)
a shot at the hopeful. How about that?
(01:40:45)
Which is hard to do. A lot of ink has
(01:40:46)
been spilled on the concerns, right?
(01:40:48)
Let's talk about the hopeful for a
(01:40:49)
second. Uh at the height of COVID, the
(01:40:53)
Holy Father uh offered an invocation,
(01:40:56)
and I'm not I'm not going to read it,
(01:40:57)
but his prayer was the storm exposes our
(01:41:01)
vulnerabilities that we have. And so his
(01:41:04)
his point that he's making there is
(01:41:06)
often when things are really really bad,
(01:41:07)
we start to uncover the things that have
(01:41:10)
been broken for a long time, right? And
(01:41:13)
so you I've been saying this about LLMs
(01:41:16)
for for a pretty long time that um we're
(01:41:19)
finally starting to ask questions about
(01:41:21)
that brokenness, right? So take
(01:41:22)
education for example. Um I think for
(01:41:26)
the very first time, thanks to chat bots
(01:41:28)
and plagiarism, we're really starting to
(01:41:30)
ask hard questions about what writing
(01:41:32)
is. uh what learning is. Uh I'll tell a
(01:41:35)
quick story. There's a school nearby
(01:41:37)
here uh very prestigious, very good uh
(01:41:41)
private boys school and they were
(01:41:44)
experiencing this plagiarism like
(01:41:46)
rampant. And so they said, "Okay, we're
(01:41:47)
going to go away from word processing.
(01:41:49)
We're going to bring in the blue books."
(01:41:50)
If anybody ever remembers blue books,
(01:41:52)
we're going to write essays in class.
(01:41:54)
And so that's a great idea until they
(01:41:56)
found out pretty quickly that they
(01:41:58)
didn't know how to write anymore, right?
(01:42:01)
And so it's a bit of a sad story, but
(01:42:05)
I'm hopeful because now that's a
(01:42:07)
conversation, right? Now we're looking
(01:42:08)
at, well, how are we teaching writing?
(01:42:10)
Yeah. How are we teaching comprehension?
(01:42:13)
Um, if they lack those basic skills. Um,
(01:42:17)
the other piece that I'm hopeful for is
(01:42:18)
there's a lot of people playing with I
(01:42:20)
call them toys because they're
(01:42:21)
entertainment value. A lot of people
(01:42:23)
playing with these chatbot toys who are
(01:42:25)
suddenly realizing that the transcribed
(01:42:28)
internet is pretty wrong. Like anybody
(01:42:31)
who uses Gemini at the top of Google,
(01:42:33)
you're like, "That's not what I was
(01:42:34)
looking for. That's not the right answer
(01:42:35)
or that's not even the right word,
(01:42:37)
right?" Um, and you know, the the phrase
(01:42:41)
artificial intelligence, I always say to
(01:42:44)
people, is an oxymoron. Aristotle in the
(01:42:46)
Greeks talked about intelligence as the
(01:42:48)
facility to prioritize or organize the
(01:42:51)
highest goods. Chatbots don't understand
(01:42:54)
what is a high good or a low good or any
(01:42:56)
kind of good, right? It's just a very
(01:42:58)
good next word guesser, right? And so,
(01:43:02)
um, I think if you're talking to the
(01:43:04)
smartest people, and by the way, the
(01:43:06)
smartest people are not the marketers.
(01:43:08)
If you're talking to the smartest
(01:43:09)
people, look at Goldman Sachs, uh, just
(01:43:12)
this week came out with a report and
(01:43:14)
they said, "Hey, by the way, that whole
(01:43:15)
thing about AI stealing jobs kind of was
(01:43:18)
an exaggeration, at least in the banking
(01:43:20)
sector, right? these guys know uh what's
(01:43:23)
going to steal their bottom line. Um and
(01:43:25)
Americans are rightly suspicious of this
(01:43:28)
technology. So I'm I'm just very hopeful
(01:43:30)
that a lot of this is just uncovering a
(01:43:32)
rot that we've been sitting on um since
(01:43:34)
the great rewiring. Yeah. And I mean to
(01:43:37)
to your note of optimism, you know, in
(01:43:40)
in covering this, we we offer a great
(01:43:43)
deal. We we're saying scrutinize its
(01:43:45)
effects on children, scrutinize child
(01:43:48)
exposure. Um we should acknowledge that
(01:43:51)
there are tremendous positive uses for
(01:43:54)
technology and AI in particular um that
(01:43:57)
ought to be pursued, employed, deployed
(01:43:59)
um at the very least to make sure that
(01:44:01)
we do it and China doesn't. But that
(01:44:03)
does not take apart uh the argument that
(01:44:05)
you've presented that we need to pass
(01:44:07)
our country, we need to pass the baton
(01:44:09)
to someone when we win. That's an
(01:44:11)
excellent point. Um the next question I
(01:44:14)
have is um for for you Annie. Um in
(01:44:19)
talking about this scrutiny and exposure
(01:44:20)
for for children. I'm uh my question is
(01:44:24)
is there evidence what is that evidence
(01:44:27)
that social media platforms and online
(01:44:29)
companies are intentionally doing this
(01:44:31)
engineering addiction for ch for
(01:44:32)
children?
(01:44:34)
Yeah, I think with the uh like dopamine
(01:44:38)
triggers, so the rewards and
(01:44:40)
notifications that uh you get on
(01:44:43)
platforms. Um so recently Grock um so X
(01:44:49)
formerly Twitter X now Grock is AI
(01:44:53)
platform.
(01:44:55)
uh they came out with a few AI
(01:44:58)
companions and one of them is this like
(01:45:00)
female anime character and as like a
(01:45:03)
reward if you with for positive
(01:45:05)
engagement with her she starts removing
(01:45:08)
clothing. Um, so I think that's one
(01:45:10)
piece of evidence. And I I think maybe
(01:45:13)
it was mentioned earlier, but Meta, it
(01:45:16)
was uncovered that Meta to train its AI
(01:45:20)
llama, it scraped 82,000 gigabytes of
(01:45:25)
material from pornography websites to
(01:45:28)
train its material. And why? Because
(01:45:30)
like pornography is addictive. And um,
(01:45:33)
so that's something to keep users
(01:45:37)
engaged. Um
(01:45:42)
so
(01:45:44)
yeah I think that is the evidence that
(01:45:47)
we have um and there's
(01:45:53)
um I mean you've got the recommendation
(01:45:55)
based algorithm and I think also just
(01:45:59)
the evidence of how the the data of how
(01:46:02)
long people are spending online and the
(01:46:05)
compulsive usage Um why else are people
(01:46:09)
spending have screen times of eight
(01:46:12)
hours eight plus hours a day? It's
(01:46:15)
because they're addicted and so and
(01:46:18)
that's be that is a design of their
(01:46:20)
features because the longer a user is
(01:46:23)
engaged the more money that they have.
(01:46:26)
So these platforms a lot of them are
(01:46:28)
free but the user is the product and
(01:46:32)
they are getting their revenue through
(01:46:34)
our use.
(01:46:36)
>> And perhaps I'm repeating myself a
(01:46:38)
little bit because of Dr. Height's
(01:46:40)
excellent presentation talking about the
(01:46:42)
tens of thousands of internal documents
(01:46:44)
that have circulated pointing giving
(01:46:46)
evidence to this problem. Um thank you
(01:46:49)
thank you for your answer. Uh Michael
(01:46:52)
perhaps a question that u you know uh
(01:46:56)
summarizes this puts a good uh landing
(01:46:58)
point for this. Um you have plenty of
(01:47:01)
experience developing and deploying
(01:47:03)
tech. What is the place for technology
(01:47:06)
in childhood?
(01:47:10)
So I've always said that discovery was
(01:47:14)
the real the one great fruit of the
(01:47:16)
internet. What what do I mean by
(01:47:17)
discovery? The ability to quickly find
(01:47:20)
get access to information and
(01:47:22)
potentially learn something, right? So
(01:47:24)
like I I don't know it's clogging your
(01:47:26)
toilet or fixing a pipe or something
(01:47:28)
like that. You can watch a YouTube video
(01:47:29)
pretty quickly. Uh not only does that
(01:47:31)
apply to information, it also uh applies
(01:47:34)
to relationship, right? You can find
(01:47:36)
people to help you. Um as you said, I'm
(01:47:39)
a technologist and I've done that for a
(01:47:42)
really long time. But I went to school
(01:47:44)
for political philosophy. Okay. So I
(01:47:47)
didn't I wasn't properly educated in any
(01:47:49)
of the stuff that I've done in my
(01:47:50)
career. All of that was given to me
(01:47:53)
again by the fruits of discovery, by the
(01:47:55)
fruits of the internet, free resources,
(01:47:57)
uh people who really care to teach me.
(01:48:00)
Um and so, you know, I I would say
(01:48:03)
access to different books, curriculum,
(01:48:06)
uh learning styles has been a huge boon
(01:48:08)
for educators, for the homeschool
(01:48:10)
community. Uh again, these are just
(01:48:12)
resources that you wouldn't have had if
(01:48:14)
not for the internet, right? if it
(01:48:16)
wasn't in your community, if you didn't
(01:48:17)
know about it, if you weren't in those
(01:48:19)
circles or in those clubs, you wouldn't
(01:48:20)
have access to that, right? Uh but this
(01:48:23)
availability and access of information
(01:48:25)
to my mind still has to be monitored or
(01:48:28)
called administered by parents and
(01:48:31)
educators, right? Because neurologists,
(01:48:34)
and you can please correct me if I'm
(01:48:37)
wrong, neurologists talk about
(01:48:39)
receptivity and education, right? The
(01:48:41)
brain is really good at deleting tons of
(01:48:44)
information that's unnecessary to the
(01:48:46)
moment, to life, and otherwise, right?
(01:48:48)
We get rid of a lot of garbage. The
(01:48:50)
brain has to be receptive to learning
(01:48:52)
something. You can't just It's not just
(01:48:54)
information you plug in and it goes in
(01:48:55)
there, right? And so information uh
(01:48:58)
sorry, education is not information.
(01:49:00)
It's not job skills. It's it's none of
(01:49:02)
these things. It's not data. It's a
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relationship with a human being that
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cultivates the humanity of that child or
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adult. uh and shapes them into a
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citizen. And so um
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you know, I think I think it's got to be
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about receptivity. It's got to be about
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using these tools wisely to find the
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right information, right? But deploying
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them with kids is again an adult choice,
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not a kid choice to just decide how much
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information I just want to consume and
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ingest. So I would say discovery for
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sure.
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>> Thank you. That's a excellent way to
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think about it. Um Annie, you know, I
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have to have to flatter you a little
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bit. Just today, you you published a
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report um on a survey the Heritage
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Foundation commissioned asking parents
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about their and their children's
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experience using online filters and
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blocking software. Can you tell us about
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some of the results of that survey and
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why it's important to this discussion?
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Yeah. Well, this survey was something I
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wanted to do for a while because last
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year as I was uh researching age
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verification and writing about it and
(01:50:09)
making the case for why it was a um good
(01:50:13)
policy solution for like online
(01:50:16)
pornography and then even um social
(01:50:18)
media and then particularly with u
(01:50:21)
online pornography. Um so as you know
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had to make a compelling case for why we
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should be adding um you know additional
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regulations, additional requirements
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and um you of course some of the push
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back is well you know we have filters
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and blocking technology like if surely
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that's uh advanced and is stronger and
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you know do we just need more people to
(01:50:45)
do that? Um but the findings of just how
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many kids were exposed to pornography
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were so high. I mean like 80% of
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teenagers have come across it at least
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from like one study 50% actively seek it
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out and 40% of little kids have come
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across it. So then the question is like
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okay so are people just not using
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filters um and is that like we just need
(01:51:12)
more people to use it or are they just
(01:51:14)
really not working? So we did this
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study. We had a thousand1 parents who um
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participated
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and uh who also of these parents I think
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everyone that was moved from the
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selection criteria to actually doing it
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they all said that they used filters or
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blocking technology. And what we found
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is you know still that there is um a lot
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of problems and that they aren't
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perfect. they definitely they they help
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but there is um still a lot of gaps
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where they fail. So 50% of parents said
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that the filtering blocking software
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rarely worked or only worked some of the
(01:52:01)
time. 50% of parents also said that you
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know so what that their kids had access
(01:52:08)
to devices that don't have filters in
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place. So whether it's maybe the parents
(01:52:12)
devices that aren't protected or at a
(01:52:15)
friend's house or at school,
(01:52:18)
um about 20% said that their kid had
(01:52:21)
unintentionally accessed obscene content
(01:52:24)
while a filter was in place and 15% said
(01:52:28)
that they um intentionally accessed it
(01:52:31)
while there's some sort of filter in
(01:52:33)
place. Twothirds of parents also said
(01:52:36)
that filters overblock. So um it could
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be about like medical treatment u
(01:52:42)
searching information about
(01:52:43)
relationships or like drugs and alcohol.
(01:52:45)
So things that like out of context and
(01:52:47)
maybe the filter thinks is should be
(01:52:49)
blocked but u maybe in other context it
(01:52:52)
actually wasn't really inappropriate. Um
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and so that also can just be irritating
(01:52:58)
and can lead to parents disabling it and
(01:53:01)
then forgetting to turn it back on. Um
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and we also did ask questions about
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screen usage and we found
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sadly very high rates very like
(01:53:13)
compulsive usage and a correlation like
(01:53:16)
parents that spend a lot of time online
(01:53:18)
have kids that spend a lot of time
(01:53:20)
online and you know that kind of shows
(01:53:23)
importance of like modeling behavior. So
(01:53:26)
82% of parents said that they spend
(01:53:28)
between four and 12 hours a day online
(01:53:31)
during the week and 70% spend that much
(01:53:35)
time on the weekends.
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And the kids were um wasn't quite the
(01:53:41)
same percentage but still in my book a
(01:53:43)
high number. 50 parents said that at
(01:53:46)
least 53% of their kids were spending at
(01:53:50)
least four hours to over 12 hours a day
(01:53:53)
online during the week and 62% spend
(01:53:57)
that much more on the weekend. Um so I
(01:54:01)
think uh this this survey is online
(01:54:03)
there's a lot more we have a lot of
(01:54:04)
charts and graphs um
(01:54:08)
showcasing their findings and I think
(01:54:11)
ultimately it goes to show that even um
(01:54:15)
you know parents who you know they think
(01:54:17)
they have all the parental controls all
(01:54:19)
the like filters and some of these
(01:54:21)
parents were even paying like upwards of
(01:54:24)
$70 a month for the type of software
(01:54:27)
they're using to try to filter and block
(01:54:30)
um certain websites
(01:54:33)
um that it's there's still gaps in that
(01:54:36)
and that's why we need additional
(01:54:39)
measures like some of the ones I
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mentioned earlier.
(01:54:42)
>> I was just going to say anecdotally it
(01:54:45)
makes a lot of common sense. I'm a
(01:54:47)
father of five kids, right? Whenever I
(01:54:48)
meet a new parent with a new baby and
(01:54:51)
they tell me, "I don't think I'm going
(01:54:52)
to baby proof my house. I think I'm just
(01:54:55)
going to watch the kid really, really
(01:54:56)
closely." And I laugh because they're in
(01:54:58)
for a rude awakening, right? Monitoring
(01:55:00)
never works. If you're a parent, you
(01:55:02)
know, monitoring never works. And so I
(01:55:04)
think it just makes common sense that
(01:55:06)
doesn't matter what you throw at it,
(01:55:08)
kids uh life finds a way, right? Yeah.
(01:55:11)
And it's worth acknowledging that no one
(01:55:13)
is rushing to the microphone to say
(01:55:15)
safety tools online or solve the
(01:55:17)
problem. Um glad that they exist, but
(01:55:21)
let's uh let's keep our expectations
(01:55:22)
straight. All right, next question here.
(01:55:26)
Um uh well actually I should acknowledge
(01:55:29)
if you would like to offer uh a question
(01:55:31)
in the from the audience if you'd like
(01:55:33)
to offer a question you can email public
(01:55:35)
programs at heritage.org to present your
(01:55:38)
question. Um but next time uh next for
(01:55:42)
for one of my own uh Dr. Dunley let's um
(01:55:45)
go back to you. what uh you know,
(01:55:48)
listening to this conversation um what
(01:55:51)
misconceptions do policymakers or
(01:55:53)
parents have about the science of screen
(01:55:56)
use that you think need to be corrected
(01:55:59)
in order for them to craft effective
(01:56:01)
policies?
(01:56:02)
>> Um I think one of the main things is I
(01:56:04)
always hear, oh, if you just eliminate
(01:56:08)
screens an hour before bedtime, then
(01:56:10)
they'll be protected. I hear that all
(01:56:11)
the time. Um, and that it's helpful, but
(01:56:14)
it doesn't protect them necessarily or
(01:56:17)
even close the bare minimum. Yeah. Um,
(01:56:20)
another one is is, you know, oh, the the
(01:56:23)
content thing like, oh, it just matters
(01:56:24)
what they're doing. As long as they're
(01:56:25)
doing something educational, then it's
(01:56:27)
okay. I hear that all the time, too. And
(01:56:30)
as we've discussed, you know, all of
(01:56:31)
these things, like to me, the content
(01:56:33)
doesn't matter that much. It doesn't
(01:56:34)
make that much difference. Um, and all
(01:56:38)
of these all of these platforms and the
(01:56:40)
software and everything and the device
(01:56:42)
themselves is designed to pull you back
(01:56:43)
in. So, um, that's another big one. Um,
(01:56:47)
and I think also people people to me the
(01:56:51)
interactive screen time is a lot more
(01:56:52)
disregulating because it's more
(01:56:53)
stimulating and more engaging. Um, so
(01:56:56)
that's another big one that EdTE uses
(01:56:58)
all the time is um, this is how we keep
(01:57:00)
the children engaged. um will make it
(01:57:03)
more interesting and interactive and
(01:57:05)
interactive and we know that from
(01:57:07)
research as well that interactive has
(01:57:09)
more effect on sleep. It has more effect
(01:57:11)
on mood and cognition the following day.
(01:57:14)
>> Excellent. Thank you. Um Jennifer, a
(01:57:17)
question for you. Um where do you see
(01:57:21)
natural allies among health
(01:57:23)
organizations and tech policy advocates
(01:57:25)
to move this forward? put on your
(01:57:27)
coalition's hat for a moment to say how
(01:57:29)
how do folks work together to be
(01:57:31)
effective here?
(01:57:32)
>> Well, definitely pull in all the maja
(01:57:35)
people and the mothers. I mean, defin
(01:57:37)
that is one that is the force that we
(01:57:39)
have seen push kind of maha out th those
(01:57:42)
there's a lot of moms in Congress like
(01:57:44)
knocking on doors, making phone calls,
(01:57:46)
writing letters, now getting involved in
(01:57:48)
drafting policy. It is the it is the
(01:57:52)
epitome of what it means to be a
(01:57:55)
democratic republic to to have the
(01:57:57)
people run the government and not the
(01:58:00)
other way around. Um the other thing
(01:58:02)
I'll say I'm going to put on my Charlie
(01:58:04)
Kirk hat for a moment is is call on
(01:58:06)
churches.
(01:58:08)
I I feel like there's yes, tech is
(01:58:11)
shaping us, but we're also v vulnerable
(01:58:14)
because of this perversion of sex as we
(01:58:17)
see in pornography um and the sexual
(01:58:19)
culture as we see in kind of the
(01:58:21)
Kardashian culture that girls are
(01:58:24)
attracted to. And what we haven't
(01:58:26)
touched on is is how this kind of we
(01:58:30)
kind of touched on it, but how this
(01:58:32)
degradates family formation um which we
(01:58:35)
know is the foundation of healthy and
(01:58:36)
flourishing societies and something
(01:58:38)
Heritage is very much focused on in this
(01:58:40)
new year. Um this new year coming up and
(01:58:45)
I am every time I see this guy Jeffrey
(01:58:47)
Marsh pop up on social media he freaks
(01:58:51)
me out. And we are we are feeding these
(01:58:54)
kids this trans this transgender
(01:58:56)
ideology and perverting normal healthy
(01:59:01)
sexual relationships between men and
(01:59:03)
women and destroying families. And I
(01:59:05)
think if churches don't play a role in
(01:59:07)
this, if they don't somehow I understand
(01:59:10)
where church is like, well, that's not
(01:59:12)
our job. Well, you cannot I don't think
(01:59:14)
we're in a position in this day and age
(01:59:16)
to remove morality from policy and
(01:59:18)
legislation and and and our everyday
(01:59:21)
life.
(01:59:22)
um that may have held true before when
(01:59:25)
we were a religious society. Um I think
(01:59:28)
we need to bring a little bit of that
(01:59:30)
into the forefront, call on churches, um
(01:59:33)
call on civic organizations and
(01:59:35)
communities to really bring this back
(01:59:37)
into public life and what a healthy
(01:59:40)
sexual relationship is, what a healthy
(01:59:42)
marriage is, what it means to date and
(01:59:45)
court. and and it seems so archaic in
(01:59:49)
this day and age and it seems so um lite
(01:59:52)
but uh I just feel like churches have a
(01:59:57)
have a bigger role in all of this
(01:59:59)
cultural formation than than we're
(02:00:01)
asking them to play.
(02:00:03)
>> If we can lean on the maja movement
(02:00:05)
bring in the churches um take leadership
(02:00:07)
in our own families and communities
(02:00:10)
there there's a lot of work to do and a
(02:00:12)
lot to be hopeful for. So would you
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please join me in thanking this panel
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for their terrific remarks.
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[applause]
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On behalf of the Heritage Foundation,
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thank you all for joining us for this
(02:00:29)
conversation. Please be encouraged to
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lead in your families and communities to
(02:00:33)
demand a better outcome for our kids.
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Thank you and please join us for
(02:00:37)
reception in the lobby as you entered.
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Thank you.
